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Old Mar 10, 2016, 10:45 AM
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I've been living there for almost 2 yrars and i find it profoubdly triggering since its not my HOME. It disgusts me and i feel rejection and nauseous every time i get there. No chance of going to live somewhere else for a long while.

How do you deal with a daily trigger?

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Old Mar 10, 2016, 10:53 AM
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Work on making it homey. Make it YOURS. Little by little.
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 11:13 AM
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I dont want it to be mine, never
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 11:16 AM
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You either find way to make it home, at least temporarily, or you move elsewhere. For peace of your soul, you need to be at place you love at least a bit.

what do you hate about it so much?
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 12:46 PM
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Its all CHANGED and i hate changes! The only thing i like about it is that my family is there
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 12:55 PM
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Change is part of life.

Your family is there. Which is important. Focus on that.
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 01:06 PM
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Yes, when they're there its ok, but when they're not i feel like trashing my body (severe SH and OD). It took me almost two years to go back kissing my Mom good night because i was still resented with her bevause she chose her happiness over mine (admittedly). And only because I NEEDED IT.. i love Mom, o hate her/our house.
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