[radio_flyer]

I just noticed zh's listed as anonymous - unregistered..
ummmmm...

[LMo]

Don't know, but I noticed it myself. People typically become unregistered by request. I hope that she is ok - I'm worried, too.

[radio_flyer]

Thank you LMO... I was just shocked when I noticed she was listed as unregistered....I hope she is ok.. i will miss her a lot.. i guess this means she won't be back ........tears

[LMo]

my reaction was identical to yours...

[SleepsWithButterFlies]

If she left on her own would she not say? I liked her and she is way smart too

[DocJohn]

__Zh left on her own request to have her account deleted from the forums. She had a very good reason for this request, and one I was obliged to honor. Sorry...

She will be missed as well, because not only was she a long-standing contributing member of the community, but she was also a part of the moderation team. Her departure saddens us all.

DocJohn

[kimmydawn]

thank you, john. i wish her well.

kd

[radio_flyer]

Thank you Doc John. Jest it happened oh so fast, without warning orr even a goodbye. i am gonna miss her bunches......

[darkeyes]

Me too I loved talking with her and her wonderful style of writing.
Hope all will be well in her life and times.
We miss you "z".

Sincerely,
DE

[Fuzzybear]

You are missed here zh

[jennie]

I was just starting to get to know her. I hope she finds the support she needs. ((((((((((((((((huggs __zh)))))))))))))

__zh . . . email me if you see this jen.618@gmail.com

Zensky Doodle Head (did you all know that's her middle name?)

You can always change your mind - it's a Doodle Head's perogative. I insist you come back. I won't take No for an answer. The End.

your old pal, emmy

[Schatze]

I'll miss you.

[radio_flyer]

I second what emily said... Please come back...

[Minnehaha]

I'm gonna miss her too... was just getting to know her. Maybe she'll come back someday soon.

[(JD)]

Sorry you left __zh. TC.

BTW I, for one, would like a list of "good reasons to leave psychcentral".... sigh. I mean, really.

[Topher]

This is very unsettling to me. We have had innumerable private conversations via this forum.. She has been a very important confidant for me. I know she has had some personal issues. Pray that all is well with her.
__zh:
I hope all is well with you dear friend if you are looking in from time to time. I wish you had the chance to say goodbye. Your friendship has meant so much to me. Please let me know somehow if you'd like to talk.
Affectionately,
Topher

Toph - I'm upset too and worried.

Zensky, if you are reading this, would you please email me?

I think it's time for you to visit a friend who owns a nice bathtub. Bring those Lush products we love.

emsky

[Topher]

Em
If she contacts you would you please tell her that it was my intent to be supportive in my last message to her. I may have sounded harsh and I'd hate for that to be how she remembers me. Thanks,
Topher

[gardenergirl]

zen,
I hope you are able to find your way back to PC in some way, shape, or form. Your leaving is a real loss, and you are already missed.

Be well,
gg

[Schatze]

Please take good care of yourself and come back to visit if you can. You're very loved and will be greatly missed. You'll always stay in our hearts.

Missi

[mortimer]

Bai bai. *hug squish*

[Miss_A]

Awww she went with out a bye or i missed that. Hope she is ok!

[AllDone]

(((((zen)))))

I hope you are safe and taking good care of yourself, but gosh, I'll miss you.

Laurie

[__zh]

Many people here on these boards are comfortable sharing personal information as most of these forums are not searchable by indexed search engines, although Yahoo! did show a couple posts last check That is fine if they are the ones choosing to share their information.

Other people, like ourselves, lean toward the private side. We're here on these forums to learn and to support as best we are able. We're not here to defend our right to privacy. Our expectation of privacy isn't naive yet we also never expected some of the things that occured. From the history of abuse we've endured we've been habituated to the beliefs of not having the right to ask for help or not being believed when we bring evidence forth. With much therapy we're working on retraining our automatic goto thought of nobody cares or will help.

So imagine being so separated from one's own selves that the hurts of one are not known by the rest. Imagine going about your life and then being whammied by pain you never knew existed and don't understand. Imagine the frustration of assembling this puzzle without the boxtop as a guide. If you can imagine that then you have glimpsed into our lives.

We took some much needed time off, sadly the timing wasn't of our choosing but such is life, and we were very touched by the kind words said. Our apologies for the sudden departure but as a work in progress we can only do what we know is safest for the system and that meant to pull back and away from whatever caused one of ours so much pain.

Blessings for the kindness expressed.