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Old Oct 09, 2003, 05:34 PM
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I'm having one today, and I'm really sorry if my attitude has offended anyone. I've had a lot of bad memories dredged up the last few days, and I'm not handling it well

But I am responsible for my actions, and it doesn't give me the right to act like an a**hole.

Sorry,
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Old Oct 09, 2003, 05:36 PM
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You did not come across bad. Take it easy on yourself.

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Old Oct 09, 2003, 06:04 PM
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Your heart is filled with kindness and you know just what to do with it. So much people don't know that. You are one of the special one. So don't be too hard on yourself. You are doing great!

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Old Oct 09, 2003, 06:59 PM
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Old Oct 09, 2003, 07:54 PM
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We all have those kinds of days and you are only human....be easy on yourself.

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Old Oct 09, 2003, 08:24 PM
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Hugs for you, Bptoo = You ever just have one of those days?

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Old Oct 10, 2003, 09:10 AM
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bp...

First, you were not acting like an ***** ****. Good Lord.

Second, stop beating yourself up. You were being assertive, being passionate about something. That is a good thing.

It seems as though when people on this board take a stand and assert themselves that is a behavior that is "looked down upon". I think, in part, it is due to the fact that many of the posters here, including myself, are emotionally raw and have pretty thin skins. I know I have over reacted a couple times when someone was assertive and direct with me.

We should encourage, not discourage, people to be assertive and direct. And, by saying that I am not saying that people have the license to be over powering, uncivil and disrespectful. State your mind, be civil and respectful. But, don't apologize for it. We have to be able to deal with and handle controversy and confrontation. It doesn't have to be a bad thing.

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bp, you have never acted like an a**hole.
You are doing a wonderful job here ...

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Old Oct 10, 2003, 02:57 PM
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A**hole? Cha right. Your the best Beep. Give yourself a big hug today. (It's from me :O)
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