What do you think when people are judgmental?

I agree the word judgment is not the same as to be judgmental. I think judgment is something you can refine to understand people better. And you can't do that unless you're open. That's why I think judgmental people are kind of missing out.

Slaveholders, racists, bigots and others often had or have sincere beliefs. The hurt is felt whether intended or not.

what business is it of mine what you think about me ? my business is what i think about you ...

I guess I'm stuck on the people who need to blurt out everything that comes to mind. I think they are missing the filter that allows us to think before we speak or they are just plain evil. To have internal judgments is human...to feel the need to point out every flaw you see in others is just plain wrong.

Back to what I said earlier...some things are better left unsaid!