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Old Apr 04, 2011, 12:12 PM
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I feel a little stressed because my brother told me about something. It's got to do with "friends" at college. My brother got threatened and his "friend" said it's your last warning and you're going to be beaten up" to my brother. I'm just annoyed. These two people have been nasty to him and they're not even his friends, they are two faced and childish. The girl has kicked my brother in the privates and has said horrible things. It's like my brother has dragged me into this. I tell him I am fed up of hearing about his situation. He should tell the college but he told a staff about the bully but he forgot to tell her. This is my brother's problem and I'm stressed because of it But he told me he going to put them on a statement. I feel like having a go at these "people" urghhhhhh... One time they said to my brother. "oh your willy smells"... soooo childish -_- and these "friends" are college students. The girl even said I cut off your penis and eat it... to my brother. That's just sick urghhhhhh this is stressing me out. I try giving advice to my brother. I might tell him to not to talk to him or something. any advice?

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Old Apr 04, 2011, 12:18 PM
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yes, happycheeks, i'd suggest he report everything to the college. and i agree he needs to ignore these ppl altogether. they seem incredibly immature. hard to fathom what's going on.
as for you...there's nothing you can do so it's good to keep your distance from all this. what do your parents say about what's going on? I hope your brother discusses this with them. it's important he do so.
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Old Apr 04, 2011, 12:33 PM
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Wow? These people are in college? This seems so silly!

As for your brother, I imagine he's coming to you because he can trust you. I know you're aggravated with him because he can't (or won't) resolve the situation on his own, but I do think it's cool that he trusts you enough to come to you for help.

But this is a situation where you really can't help. He needs to talk to an administrator about this if he really wants anything done about it. This seems to be getting out of hand, and the only one who can stop it is him. He needs to avoid these people, but report it through the proper channels.

As for you, just tell him you want to help him but he needs to help himself. It's up to him what happens now, and how this gets resolved.
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Old Apr 04, 2011, 12:48 PM
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Wow? These people are in college? This seems so silly!

As for your brother, I imagine he's coming to you because he can trust you. I know you're aggravated with him because he can't (or won't) resolve the situation on his own, but I do think it's cool that he trusts you enough to come to you for help.

But this is a situation where you really can't help. He needs to talk to an administrator about this if he really wants anything done about it. This seems to be getting out of hand, and the only one who can stop it is him. He needs to avoid these people, but report it through the proper channels.

As for you, just tell him you want to help him but he needs to help himself. It's up to him what happens now, and how this gets resolved.
Yeah I know it's silly. I know he goes for me to help but it's annoying that college won't do much. But my brother is going to write a statement on them too and this means he writes happened and then the tutor know what is happening. then it can be resolved maybe
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Old Apr 04, 2011, 12:49 PM
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yes, happycheeks, i'd suggest he report everything to the college. and i agree he needs to ignore these ppl altogether. they seem incredibly immature. hard to fathom what's going on.
as for you...there's nothing you can do so it's good to keep your distance from all this. what do your parents say about what's going on? I hope your brother discusses this with them. it's important he do so.
I don't know what my parents say about this.
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