I´ve done it...

I´ve hurt a friend! I hate hurting people! It´s just not ME! Done something stupid in my confusion! I wish I could make it undone! But I can´t!
My heart and mind are crying... Why was I such a fool???
Well, no one has to answer this post! Just had to get it out of my system...

i'm sorry that you're hurting........please try to make things right with your friend.....

Ninni unfortunately part of being human we make mistakes. Sometimes they result in hurting someone we care very much about. Maybe you can explain to your friend why you did what you did and heal the relationship. Don't beat up on yourself as we all make mistakes in relationships.

Meh. Relax, be happy. ^^ *Hands you a lollipop* If you keep beating yourself up over if you won't have a chance to tell the person you hurt that you're sorry, or try to make things better. No use crying about something you can try to make better. But before you do that you have to smile, show a little confidence. And let's also use the classic line, "If they're truly your friend, they'll understand." ^^ So feel better ok?

Love Jen

Dearheart if the friend is here they will see your post and realize you didn't mean to hurt them, , besides a friend is a friend through thick and thin, they will understand if there true

I´m in tears here... I think I´ve lost her before I even completely got her as a friend! I´ve ruined my reputation and gone against my own principles. I feel so ashamed! I´ve been a fool! Now, I can only take a step back and lick the wounds that I´ve caused myself. I will think a lot harder before I get involved with persons in the future. Because all company is not good company! Well, I´ve learned my lesson the hard way... I only want to be the Nina I used to be and the Nina I truely am. I´ve been walking a few steps on a road heading for only misery, now I´m back on the right track!
To the person that I did hurt, I can only say: I´m sorry!

Nina -- I think you're being really really hard on yourself. Do you want to talk about this in Chat? You don't have to name names, but it disturbs me that you're so upset about this.

Hi honey, I'm sorry that you're going through such a rough time of introspection right now. It sounds like you are doing your best to learn from your mistake, which is all anyone can ask of you! Just do your best to apologize to your friend if that's what you want to do, and just hope and pray that she can find it in her to forgive you. If not, life happens! We love you just the same. We can learn from our mistakes. You can do it!

Andy

I am sorry you are going through this....

Bearhugs,
Fuzzy

I'm so sorry that you're suffering so much right now. Hang in there. I'm sure if you explain things and try to mend things, it will work out for the best.

I'm so sorry that you are in such pain. Talk to your friend. Work it out. All of us make mistakes. She/he will understand.

Hugs,

Jan