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Old Feb 08, 2006, 07:58 PM
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I'm really going to miss this place. Today my husband and I found an apartment. It's smaller, and not our type of environment. But it's the best thing to do financially for now.

Everyday I have woken up in this place, a clean white painted room, with the ugliest window drapes you can imagine. I'd shiver and rush out of the room as soon as I seen the sun come out, because I knew the wasp that reside in the wall would be out for the day.

I complained about everything here. I always claim to hate it here. I hate the kitchen, I hate the carpet, I hate the landlord.....bla bla bla.

But now that it's time to go, I don't want to leave. I brought my newborn here to this house. My babies took their first steps in this house, and the distance between my mother and I was greatly valued.

It's at the bottom of a large mountain in the middle of nowhere. It has one road.....with pot hole after pot hole. There's houses, trailers, and one small white church in view from my house. Every Wednesday night, and Sunday morning and night church is in session. It's the only time we ever have cars come down this road.

I'll miss the stupid curtains, the stupid kitchen, the big bath tub, the view of New River Gorge winding down the mountains in my back yard, the cook outs, the fishing, the pot holes..........and most of all when church is in session. Church is in session.

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Old Feb 08, 2006, 08:04 PM
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Church is in session. Church is in session. I am sorry ..I know I hate where I live but I know when I have to move I will miss a lot of things...mostly the quiet and land....Will it help to look at what will be good at the new place....like more cash, no wasp and so on? I wish you well and am sorry you feel loss
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Old Feb 08, 2006, 08:26 PM
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I remember when I lived in a place I hated...I miss it a lot now. Sometimes our heart grows fond of places no matter how much we as people dislike it.
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Old Feb 09, 2006, 10:43 AM
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((((((((((((((((( Des ))))))))))))))))))))

I'm so sorry. I know what it's like to have to leave home. Maybe you can fix up your new apt and it will feel like home before long.

You can see the New River Gorge? Oh my goodness, how beautiful! Where are you moving?

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Old Feb 09, 2006, 12:21 PM
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AWWWWWWWW (((((((((((((Desirae)))))))))))))))

that made me tear up.

i wish you so well in your new home.

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Old Feb 09, 2006, 12:29 PM
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Des, it's hard to leave a place with all thoughs memories but look at the bright side you can make new memories in the new place, what we did is , made drapes that we like out of fancy tableclothes, stencil on the walls makes it pretty and personal, using mirrors make the rooms seem larger
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Old Feb 09, 2006, 12:40 PM
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Thanks alot everybody.......I know I can do well in this new place. We will create new memories there. I'm moving to an apartment in town. My husband and I decided it would be best for us because it would save so much money. Now we have to leave an hour early to get to work and my classes on time. When we move to apartments it will take 10.

Oh Jan......it's in Sophia......do you know where that's at?

aaaw....this house is beginning to become so bare. I never realized how much I liked this place. I will miss it, but yet again, I'll enjoy waking up and not fearing I'll be stung by a wasp.

I really hate those things.......((shiver))

Thanks alot everybody,
Desirae
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Old Feb 09, 2006, 04:50 PM
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Church is in session. Home is where the heart is, or in my opinion, Home is where my dog is!

Moving is tough. I wish you well.
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Old Feb 09, 2006, 08:44 PM
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Yes, I do know where Sophia is. It's beautiful but rugged country down there. You'll be just fine. You'll feel happy in your new home before you know it.

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Des, I have just moved a thousand miles to be with the woman I love; home is where the heart is, and you will be happy at your new place as you have love...for your husband, for your family.
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