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Old Apr 21, 2006, 11:23 PM
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I'm starting to think there is something wrong with me, instead of beating myself up for ruining everything like I have over the past 12 years. I'm not sure. I haven't spoken about it to anyone before, and I'm almost scared to say it out loud in case it's true. I don't know what to do.

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Old Apr 21, 2006, 11:29 PM
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welcome snafuki! I've never spoken to anyone about how I feel

take your time. you can share here when, and if, you want. there's alot of us who may understand. you'll surely find some support.

again...welcome. i wish you well.

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Old Apr 21, 2006, 11:33 PM
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I don't even know where to start. I'm not sure what is cause and what is effect...
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Old Apr 21, 2006, 11:36 PM
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I understand...completely.

Hey, don't hesitate to send a private message if you want... Just click on my name and it will give you the option.

Be safe,

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Old Apr 21, 2006, 11:40 PM
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Welcome to PC snafuki.
We are here to support you.
It is probable that you are not alone in how you think, feel, etc.
Trusting can be so hard...I know.
Hope you will find the people and the forums helpful.
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Old Apr 21, 2006, 11:40 PM
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Old Apr 21, 2006, 11:47 PM
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Well.

I think maybe I have a sexual addiction. I'm finding it hard to believe that sexual addiction is a real thing, and that I'm not just completely self-destructive on purpose. Just saying "sexual addiction" makes me almost laugh because it sounds so absurd, but when I think about it it would really explain a lot. Like, the past 12 years...

I don't want to talk about this to anyone, especially not my boyfriend of over two years. He wouldn't understand.
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Old Apr 22, 2006, 12:10 AM
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Hi snafuki!

Welcome as they others have said.

I can see where you are coming from *nods*. I think it probably seems absurd because we are taught that sex isint something that we can get addicted to and that its either wonderful and good for you, or dirty and bad. But i think it can definetly be something that could be an addiction, if you think about doing it or do it so much that it interferes with your life.

Obviously you are thinking about it effecting you since you have been so brave to post to us. Take your time. You don't have to make any descisions right away. We certainly do not mind talking to you I've never spoken to anyone about how I feel

Just so you know, i dont find it absurd and I think thats totally a viable thing to be concerned with.
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Old Apr 22, 2006, 01:54 AM
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Welcome too the boards Snafuki! I think we all have been apprehensive when first joining a forum but believe me the people here are not only great listeners but they are a great group for support. Just take your time and peek around.
Again WELCOME!
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Old Apr 22, 2006, 08:33 AM
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Welcome snafuki. Please keep sharing as you feel comfortable.
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Old Apr 22, 2006, 01:10 PM
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I think I can relate pretty well. I'm the type that once I have sex, I want it more and more...I guess I'm insatiable.
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Old Apr 22, 2006, 05:37 PM
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It's more than I let it ruin relationships. I seemingly only want it from someone I'm not involved with, and the guys I date are not the guys I want to have sexual relationships with. I just can't seem to mix the two.

I'm already divorced once and I'm under 30. I feel it's about to ruin my current relationship too, we've been together for 2 years. I can't talk to him about this though, which is a rather big problem. Ack.
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