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Aug 30, 2013, 09:05 AM
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Im not good at these things. The dead dont bother me. But being hugged and talked to does. Or giving condolences. And people think Im odd cause I dont cry at funerals. I dont know why I dont but I dont. And half the town is gonna be packed in that tiny little church. If this wasnt my husbands best friends service I wouldnt go. I know it sounds selfish, but Im uncomfortable with grieving people. Well, people in general, really. Im having serious people anxiety. Church anxiety. And sadness for my good buddy.
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Aug 30, 2013, 10:14 AM
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I think alot of people are like that, i hate funerals, especially wakes, it takes alot out of a person. Stay strong and this will pass too.
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Aug 30, 2013, 11:13 AM
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It's not that strange to have those kind of feelings. Funerals are tough, especailly, if you are close to the person. Having anxiety issues makes it worse. Hang in there; make sure you take deep breaths. And remember it will be over soon.
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Aug 30, 2013, 07:30 PM
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Made it thru. It was really hard. Emotionally draining.
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Sep 01, 2013, 12:31 AM
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I'm glad to hear that you went to the funeral, and it's all over now. Good job! Thanks also for letting us know.
   I hope that you're feeling a little better now as well.
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Sep 06, 2013, 01:12 PM
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They cremated him right after the autopsy. I didnt get to see him or say goodbye. Im not feeling closure. Idk....I miss him so
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Sep 08, 2013, 11:48 PM
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i completely understand, Thunderbear, i'm the same.... but you did stand strong for those who needed you....
now you can take time to heal~
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