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Old Sep 11, 2012, 01:10 PM
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In hospital #3, josh by my side, thanks to SuperWomanK. 46 cuts on my arm and a deathwish bigger than I can contain. If there is a god, I could use you right about now.
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Old Sep 11, 2012, 02:05 PM
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I'm glad you're there and ok. Get this done Shadows...it's a tough time but it can get a lot better. Glad you had the right help in getting there. Just let things unfold. More best wishes and we'll see you later on. Hugs and support for you in buckets.
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Old Sep 11, 2012, 09:40 PM
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((((((((((Shadows)))))))))))))))

That is an atrocious story. Those people are so incompetent. I am glad that you were able to persevere in getting the help that you so desperately need. Thank you for keeping trying. I know it can be really hard to keep trying and keep trying. But you are so strong and you showed that today. I am so proud of you. Keep taking care of yourself.

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Old Sep 11, 2012, 09:51 PM
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Shadows,
I am SO glad you are trying to get help for yourself. It is totally ridiculous the way you have been treated!
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Old Sep 11, 2012, 11:18 PM
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This just makes me sad. Sorry this is what you are having to go through Shadows. I believe the system is broken, Then they wonder why we are feeling the way we do! I hope and pray you find the help you need. Is there anyone out there that cares besides us? Please take care you are worth it!
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Old Sep 12, 2012, 07:01 AM
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I hope you are doing okay...
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Old Sep 12, 2012, 07:10 AM
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I'm so sorry Shady, for everything you are going thru. Please continue to try to get help, I know it seems hopeless, but please try.

You have my support, even if I don't have the right words to express it. I will also keep you in my prayers. Take care of yourself!
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Old Sep 12, 2012, 08:19 AM
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I talked to shadows and she was admitted last night. Her insurance company lit a fire under the charge nurse and they got things moving for her. Just wanted to let everyone know.

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Old Sep 12, 2012, 08:25 AM
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Good stuff...again, all the best Shadows.
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Old Sep 14, 2012, 11:01 AM
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If you review this Shadows, just wondering how you are. Just hadn't seen any posts from you the last couple of days. Are things settling a bit for you? Take care and if you like let us know how you are.
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Old Sep 14, 2012, 07:24 PM
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Update on Shadows: She is doing well and I hope to take her back home on Monday.
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Old Sep 15, 2012, 06:41 PM
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Update from shadows herself:

"Hi everybody,

I was scheduled to get out on Sunday/tomorrow, but had a hard day in group therapy on Friday. The T has been talking about boundaries twice a day so the second session on Friday I asked if we could change the subject. So she passed out a worksheet for us to heck of nurturing or dysfunctional behaviors in our families. I could not check off even a partial nurturing behavior. It hit too close to home and I cried the whole session. The therapist talked to me after that. He said he is concerned that I want to go home Sunday and straight back to work Monday. He doesn't think that is a good idea. He believes he can help me and wants me to stay longer. I talked to WhiteNight and agreed to stay until Wednesday. This is actually a good psych hospital, probably ranks #2 out of the 10 I have been in. They put me on Topamax 2X day, Restoril for sleep, kept Adderall and Celexa. They will set me up with a DBT/Trauma T and a good psychiatrist. Thanks for all your love and support.

~Shady"
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Old Sep 15, 2012, 06:50 PM
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(((( Shadows )))) and (((( whiteNight ))))

All the nurturing and support you two want and need is waiting for you right here!

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Old Sep 15, 2012, 08:52 PM
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((((((((Shadows)))))))
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I'm so glad you are getting the help you need and that the hospital is such a good one. Both of you take care of yourselves and each other. And know that all of us here are supporting you.
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Old Sep 15, 2012, 10:19 PM
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Big HUGS for you Shadows!! You are a brave person to keep trying to get the help you need.
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Old Sep 15, 2012, 11:10 PM
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HUGS shadows. I am so glad you are getting the help you need!

And HUGS wn for helping her!
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Old Sep 16, 2012, 04:20 PM
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I was so scared that something would happen to you shadows. Hugs
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Old Sep 16, 2012, 07:09 PM
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I love you so much shnookums
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Old Sep 16, 2012, 07:09 PM
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OH i forgot to do this for you

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Old Sep 16, 2012, 07:39 PM
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update from shadows:

"Hi everybody,

Please, if you believe in God and pray, let him know that I need him right now. I need comfort. I need to feel like its going to be ok. I want my daddy, but he doesn't exist as he used to be. Pray for me.

Huggles, Shady"
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Old Sep 16, 2012, 08:55 PM
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(((shadows))) I don't know you but have kept up with your post.
I do believe in God & will pray for your comfort & strength.
Wish you the best in this journey.
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Old Sep 16, 2012, 10:41 PM
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I'm glad you found a good hospital. One that is helping and caring. Stay as long as you need to, don't be in a hurry to go back to work. Your work now is you. "You are important in the universe-whether or not you know it" Take care.
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Old Sep 17, 2012, 07:01 AM
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You are in my prayers and in my heart. May God bless and keep you. May He give you peace, strength and love.
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Old Sep 17, 2012, 07:26 AM
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Shadows, you are living the dream as far as I'm concerned. I hope you enjoy your stay.
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Old Sep 17, 2012, 11:24 PM
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^^Interesting response to someone who is struggling so much.
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You take it and drop it and it breaks when it falls.
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