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Nov 12, 2012, 07:19 AM
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My employer is a military officer and he thinks I'm a private, so he told me to listen to him and shut up. Then he noticed I have evil eyes darkened with anger (my eyes are brown and it was at night). I explained to him one issue in a calm voice, giving examples and since I proved him wrong, he said: 'You know what you're doing now? You're making a scenery' (yes, a 'scenery'). I was upset and told him I would consider changing the family (I'm an au pair) but today, on my name day, he said 9th Dec is my last day here. Now I am really 'making a scenery'- I complained to my agency. I had different bosses back in Poland but no one has treated me like this. Maybe it's a cultural difference.
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 carrie_ann, Dontfeellikeme
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Nov 12, 2012, 10:05 AM
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Sounds as though you are well rid of this employer. Be careful while you still work there.
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Nov 12, 2012, 02:48 PM
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It is always difficult to face a change but it sounds like this will be a good change long term for you. I hope you are able to find somewhere new very quickly.
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Nov 12, 2012, 03:13 PM
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Sorry you are loosing your job, It maybe for the best though. I always say I was looking for a job when I found this one I will find another. I hope things work out.
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Nov 12, 2012, 03:17 PM
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 making a scenery. ha ha ha. that is funny. i wouldn't want to work for that man. hugs. as for your signature message, you are not bad, you didn't deserve it, it is not your fault you were powerless to fight it. do you have a T ? sending more hugs
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Nov 12, 2012, 03:26 PM
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(((((Bathony))))) he sounds like an idiot and you deserve a better employer!
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