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#1
Dec 31, 2012, 03:12 AM
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I was having such a good time!
I was reading! And I was writing! I was doing things I enjoyed! I drew and I was happy with what I was drawing! I was happy! Then someone said ONE THING. ONE THING TO ME And now I feel like I wanna die. I've been slipping and slipping and falling faster than I ever have before! I DON'T WANT TO DEAL WITH THIS ANYMORE! I HATE BEING LIKE THIS! WHY AM I LIKE THIS?! I CAUSE EVERYONE INCONVENIENCE! I DON"T WANT TO DO ANYTHING ANYMORE! I CRY TOO MUCH AND ALL I WANT TO DO IS SLEEP!!!!!!! I want to die.... I'm gonna get therapy...... but why even bother..... |
 AngelWolf3, Anonymous32451, Anonymous48778, Dan12345, hiddeng3nius, kitty004567, Lauru, LonelyBird, Open Eyes
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#2
Dec 31, 2012, 03:43 AM
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Bless your heart! May I ask what this person said to you? It must have been very hurtful !!
You do NOT cause people any inconvenience. If THEY think so, it's THEIR problem, isn't it? It's not YOURS. RIGHT??? Think about that.  I'm alot like you. When people say something hurtful to me, I want to hide. I want to curl up in my room, and disappear. It's hard for me to handle hurtful things. But if I think about it long enough, I usually realize that what they have said is almost always THEIR problem, not MINE. For instance, when my granddaughter was living with us, she lied alot. And she used to lie to my daughter (her mother) about me and about things I used to say about her (my granddaughter). That got me in trouble with my daughter. Well, it would hurt that my daughter wouldn't believe me, and many times I'd hide. But then I'd realize that I knew the truth -- and it was my DAUGHTER'S problem, not MINE. We don't have the problem anymore, but I still remember how much it hurt.  I've developed a "thicker skin" since then. I try not to get SO upset like I did before. I TRY not to hide as much as I did before, and to stand up for myself and against the hurts done to me. If I KNOW I'm in the right, I will stand up for myself without causing an argument. If it's going to cause a fight, I just let it go, because it's just not worth it. But I refuse to be walked on anymore. I know how you feel my friend and YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Feel free to message me any time if you want to talk, okay? I really know where you're coming from. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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Dec 31, 2012, 04:09 AM
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may i ask too?
what was said to you um... i'm a poet and didon't know it. lol hugs to you.. |
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Dec 31, 2012, 04:56 AM
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I'm sorry your feeling like this, someone did the same thing to me yesterday! One sentence ruined it all! Hugs
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Dec 31, 2012, 07:47 AM
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I know exactly how you feel. I go through periods of intense creativity and happiness and everything is wonderful, nothing can pull me down, until someone says one thing. And for me, it doesn't have to be hurtful, it just has to be something that is negative about something, doesn't even have to be directed at me! My husband and I could just disagree on what movie we want to watch!
I never know when it's going to hit, or what's going to trigger it. Lately I have been in the middle of feeling happy and sad. I guess I'm sort of blank, as another person put it. I rediscovered crocheting and that helped a lot, but there are only so many things I can make with what I've got before I get bored. Still, making time for a hobby that you enjoy is wonderful therapy. I'd have to say it's the best therapy I've ever had. Maybe you can try it? Knitting, crocheting, painting, sculpting, something that keeps your hands busy, something that you can focus on instead of the negative feelings that keep creeping up. Something that keeps you busy, but that ISN'T work! I hope this helps. Like I said, I've been there, and I'm just waiting for the next negative spell. The waiting between negative spells have been getting longer and longer, though. You just have to find a positive outlet. |
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Dec 31, 2012, 09:20 AM
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I hope you find a way to gain control of yourself.
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Dec 31, 2012, 09:26 AM
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I hope that you can slowly heal...I am so sorry someone said something to you that ruined your whole demeanor. It is so hard when things affect us so. I can relate. I hope that it can somehow be put out of your mind. (easier said than done, I know)
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Dec 31, 2012, 03:11 PM
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I'm sorry that someone had to burst your bubble like that. I too get hung up on something someone said a lot more than I care too. It's hard to shake off if it feels like it has some relevance to what you are going through. Throw some music on as therapy and try to get yourself together!
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#9
Dec 31, 2012, 10:33 PM
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Write what they said on a piece of paper and throw it in the fireplace (or some other safe receptacle)
Then go back to having a good time and read and write and do things you enjoy - draw and be happy with it and tell us how you feel!
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