My friend told me he was mentally ill. He told me he was depressed and he didn't want to live. Then, he started to tell me he wanted to go to bed. Then he went off without a goodbye but he said goodnight to my other friend which made me think that I have done something. Then the few days, he started coming on and then off. He said he needed to see his psychologist. Now, all this has made me concerned. I sent him support messages but he doesn't respond. So, is there any point of trying? I don't know what I should do. I'll let him breathe but I am concerned about him. He hasn't been chatting to my friend either. I feel like I'm part of the problem. He told me he can stay in a mood for days. Isn't this a sign of bipolar? I really want to be there for people.

[studentofthegame]

supporting your friend is a good idea. make sure it is a voice behind the ear. i.e. he's got to find his own way forward and you can't pull him in one direction or the other, you can only provide a bit of inspiration then the rest is down to him

if you're really concerned about him and it's urgent then talk to a family member possibly

is their someone else you can contact?

his parents?

other people you know he's friends with?

i don't think their's much else you can do.. as you don't really know how he is feeling (as he's not contacted you)

hope he is okay- let us know

[adam_k]

I would keep in contact. Let him know you care and are willing to help. When I get depressed I isolate myself which usually makes me feel worse. I would just let him know you care and are there for him when he is ready. If you are concerned for his safety then you could check on him in personthere or talk to his family.

[yellowted]

keep contact, even if it is just a call once every few days to say you are there if/when he is ready to talk or if he needs anything.
only he can get himself out of his 'mood' just be there when he does.