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Grand Magnate
Member Since Oct 2005
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Hi
I have been physically victimized (not in a sexual way) and have a hard time leaving my home and have to take a sedative to get through the day without crying. Help! __________________ Please donate to your local animal humane shelter! Thank-you! |
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Member Since Aug 2006
Location: USA
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When did the assault take place? and was it a stranger or someone you knew and trusted? I only ask because sometimes it can determine how to approach the healing process.
A random assault by a stranger is frightening, and brings about it's own demons. One by someone you knew, is not only frightening but breechs boundaries of trust, respect, security, etc... Either way, it's not an overnight thing, and sometimes our minds in order to get us through the initial incident and time after have numbed us out of preservation...then bam, one day the full extent of what happened kind of explodes inside us. It takes time to regain the feeling of being safe. Is this person being prosecuted for this crime? It's hard to give any concrete answer, well, cause you just really cannot, so many things play into it...but you can heal with time and help. hugs Lisa __________________ ~*~Patience is a virtue, so please be virtuous with me.~*~ ~*~Like they say, Rome wasn't built in a day, was it?~*~ ~*~Time is our friend and our healer.~*~ ~*~You are what you attract.~*~ |
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Location: Mid West USA
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I have no good answer for you because I don't know how to deal with it myself (have a cast on my hand because of it right now) but know that you are in my prayers and (((((((((hugs))))))))
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Grand Magnate
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Prayers for inner calm and peace would be helpful.
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Elder
Member Since Jul 2006
Location: South Africa
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Crying can bring healing although it doesn't feel like it at the time. You need to let the bad stuff out in some way.
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Magnate
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I am thinking of you...I would suggest talking to someone about this if you haven't already...It is truly hurting you...I only hope it isn't someone you know because it makes it even harder to get over...take care and lots of ((((hugs)))) to you...
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