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Old Feb 14, 2004, 12:39 PM
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First of all I would like to thank those of you who have taken the time to respond to my posts. I will be coming here to read in the future but I will never post again. You have no idea how much it hurts someone's feelings when you post something very private and everyone just ignores you. I thought about putting a post in every forum then ya'll could just avoid ALL the forulms. I didn't want to waste my time. I'm a nice person, a good person, your loss. All I have left to say is "Meow".


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Old Feb 14, 2004, 12:54 PM
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Hi ((((Yokus)))): I think we all feel like you do sometimes, especially when we are really hurting or for some other reason we are feeling down or vulnerable, but, honestly, I haven't seen a post like you've described.

I have to admit that there are forums here that I rarely if ever go into, and when I do it's to see if someone or the other has posted recently and is OK. Even at that, though, I rarely post a reply.

And that's just me, so please know that it is not that you are not appreciated or cared for here, because I know for sure that that is not true.

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 01:10 PM
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yokus, I am very sorry you feel that you are being ignored. I hope in time you may be able to see that no one here is purposefully avoiding you...there are any number of reasons that a person may not respond to a particular post, and the reason is almost never because of who posted it.

I was in a situation where no one responded to my posts on another forum. I found out later that the reason had nothing to do with people ignoring me, but that I was bringing up things that people hadn't thought about before, so they didn't have anything to add.

I know how much people here care for you, so I know absolutely that you are not being avoided. There is definitely another explanation,

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 01:49 PM
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I'm sorry you're feeling ignored, Yokus. Peanut and mj are both right - sometimes you just don't know what to say because they've never dealt with a certain issue before and "I'm sorry you're in pain" doesn't always seem like it is enough.

I also know how much you are cared about here, please reconsider.

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 01:58 PM
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Wow, I am saddened to hear this, I just haven't been reading all the posts lately, I am sorry you haven't heard from me
With the overwhelming life changes in my home, I have been too "bummed", "drained" and busy these days.
I hope this post of yours didn't include me, I try to keep in touch with the boards, but it is much harder now.
You take care now, okay?

((((((((((((((((( yokus ))))))))))))))))))

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 02:33 PM
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I'm very sorry that your feelings were hurt here. You are going through a lot and you really don't need this avoided feeling on top of it. I always read your posts but I have to say that I rarely reply. Not because it's you but because I don't reply much to anyone. I'm not sure enough of myself to reply and I'm scare to make things worst for the person. Right now I wish that I could make this feeling of being avoided disapear from your heart. It's not a good feeling and you don't deserve to have it. You are a good person and you are trying very hard. I sincerely think that you are greatly appreciated here. I hope that you will reconsider and stay with us. Please take good care!

((((((((((((((((((Yokus))))))))))))))))))

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 03:10 PM
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yokus........i've just recently started replying to posts here so i believe that i never saw the post you thought was ignored but i have to agree with some of the others....sometimes it is very hard to know what to say........i don't know what your problem is but i will be glad to help you in any way possible..and from the outpouring of replies to your latest posting....so will many others.please reconsider and come back.....i'd like to get to know you....peace.....julia

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 03:13 PM
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Can I ask what post you are referring to Yokus? I know that I am catching up on so many that I missed when I was in the hospital.

It is hard to feel ignored....we all understand that. There are times that pm's I send to others aren't answered either and you know, it used to bother me but not know. I know there are times that I forget to answer too....just sometimes, things happen.

Take care and know that so many think a lot of you.

{{{{{{{{{Yokus}}}}}}}}}

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 04:31 PM
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hello yokus i am very sorry that you feel this way I know when I'm being avoided

i am very sorry if i missed one of your posts. i do care about you and i try to respond if i have something to contribute, or just sometimes to give an acknolegment.

these past two weeks i have also been very down myself it has been a particularly difficult time for me. i have been posting a bit less to others because of this. i have not stopped posting but i haven't been as active in looking for everything. if i missed something from you i can assure you it was not intentional and i am very very sorry.

i am sure no one is avoiding you, so please don't feel rejected. the hurt and sadness you feel makes me feel very sorry and i hope that it will pass for you and that you will feel comfortable to post here again and regain your trust of us.

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Old Feb 14, 2004, 10:14 PM
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ok me thinks this lady needs to crawl out of her corner, again..

Did I miss something while I was sick this last week.. I have only posted two things I think.. and I have not replied to many for I hvae been having horrible mirgarnes all week, and only got up to go to school came home went to sleep till I had to pick my little girl up from day care then laid around till I could get her down then I went to bed...

I am sorry you feel this way yokus, I truly am.. But I do not know what post you are refering to??????

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Old Feb 16, 2004, 05:01 PM
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I know how you fee, and hope you still come back.

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