back to normal, what is normal?

I see lots of comertials in tv about "fealing your self again" . How do i know whin i am my self again whin i can't remimber how i am supose to feal and be normal. it has been 4 years

It is really hard to define normal, can you remember a time when you felt good? Think back, if you can remember a time when you felt good, then maybe you can reach that "normal" feeling again.

I can't . i am lucky i remimber last month

(((((((((( alf0 )))))))

I think normal is just a state of mind. If you are normal, then everyone else has to be abnormal because noone is alike!

when you feel good about yourself again...to me that is normal!!

but i can't remimber what it is like to be happy, my ex has made me into somthing i don't like. she took away my sence of humer, senve of adventure, all the fun was sucked out. now i am a shalow shell

(((((((hugs))))))))))...exes can do that to you...mine did many many years ago...but guess what I got married for a second time and have been married for 25 years now...so there is hope for you!

I didn't know what "normal" was until I started on medication for bipolar at age 48! I thought I was on some kind of drug I could sell on the street corner, I felt so good compared to the depression I was in. I was afraid it wouldn't last cuz I had had short periods of time on AD's where I would feel extremely good--found out later that that was mania produced by being on AD's without a mood stabilizer. I'm still not what you would call a social kind of person due to feelings of self-consciousness & stigma to having a mental illness, but I have made a couple friends through support groups.--Suzy

i have been maried 3 times and i refuse to get hurt again. i have been on meds and it is blah.

sorry alf...hope things get better for you...!!!! ((((hugs))))