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Feb 02, 2014, 01:56 AM
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Ok,so about year ago, my dad came in my room. Me & my friend were sleeping, & then my dad came in,& slept right next to my friend.My mom came in,& told him to get out, he wouldn't! I then asked why it happended to my mom,& she said to be quiet & not a talk about it.
Is this normal to still think about? I feel like I'm being paranoid, I just can't trust him after that,& sometimes I don't feel safe around him. I have this werid perception that something going on. For example, I was his laptop, & I saw that one of the top sites he visit said Sexy,& Im not sure, but I think it said sex too When my friend is over to sleepover I can't really sleep good. |
 Bill3, shezbut
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Feb 02, 2014, 02:14 AM
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Uh, yes, I would be very disturbed about this behavior as well.
 I would not invite your friends over to sleep anymore. Go to their places instead so you can relax & have fun! Sleepovers are always a blast & that experience is waaaay too uncomfortable to let yourself have fun at home with your father around. I do recall being paranoid in my youth....but as long as you're sure that you were awake & actually saw your father come into bed next to your friend....that isn't paranoia. I'd certainly advise you to stay away from his personal computer anyway, as it is his and your father deserves to have some privacy, just as you do. Do you have bedroom and bathroom locks? Perhaps using those could help reassure you while you shower/bathe/sleep. Gentle hugs to you! 
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Feb 02, 2014, 03:37 AM
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Feb 02, 2014, 09:54 AM
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She was over last night,& I couldn't sleep I end going to bed close to three. I feel like I'm overreacting & being paranoid.
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Feb 02, 2014, 09:59 AM
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No, I don't think you are over reacting. I think your dad and you have trust issues that need to be worked out.
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Feb 02, 2014, 01:35 PM
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It's been over a year....& I still can't get over it. I'm 100% sure it wasn't a dream. I know for sure it happend. Oh,& my dad lent me the laptop to use, because I need to use it for school. I had my friend over last night,& I kinda feel bad that had her sleepover |
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