[Lizzy31]

Oh what a well my anxiety is going or of control for many different reasons. One is my fiancée's 14 yr old son. He has had many problems in the past and is in special schooling. He has ODD (oppositional defiant disorder) bipolar disorder etc. I was shocked when on Facebook a girl tagged him as her boyfriend. I of course looked at this girls profile. She is also 14 fourteen pierced her own lip claims many relationships with boys and girls. There are pictures with her middle finger pointing.
We do not live with his son I do not believe this is healthy situation. When my fiancée texted the boys mom if she knew she said yes lol. With all my own problems and as a ten being the recluse in and out of therapy I really feel he is on a bad path. I am not his parent but I really care about him and want him to get be I think this is a step in the wrong direction. Is there anything I can do or do I just let it be?

[healingme4me]

Be supportive to your fiancé. Such a shame the mother just lol's. That would seem to make discussions about what is or isn't appropriate, much more difficult. It's an uphill battle. Why the mother approves, beyond me. Some feel it's 'cute' watching kids have puppy love

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[Lizzy31]

The sad thing is it doesn't surprise me one bit she had two older sons one being sixteen and a father already. I just feel my stepson is not being given the chances or opportunities he should. I could go on about everything else for a while but I'll stop here. Just feel better to let it it out as I have severe anxiety and v depression myself.