[Mefisto]

I just realized the strangest thing - if someone says bad things about me, i instantly assume that they are right and start to feel very sad about it.
Today i have read a very cruel comment about me and there was a little truth about it. Guy wrote that no wonder im such a failure with girls and i deserved being cheated on by my ex-gf, because im "annoying negative whiny little *****".
He doesnt know me personally and cant make so cruel verdicts, but still i feel like he's right, because i am really whiny and negative. Though i struggle to change myself, at the moment i am who i am.
How to be more resistant to people opinions?

[avlady]

that wasn't nice, but then again there are alot of mean people out there. don't let them get you down, these people see a smiling face and will do anything to wipe it off your face. they definately are disturbed themselves and want anyone to be down with them. i know it sounds like a hard thing to do, but you really should just know that they are the one with the problem, not you.

[BLUEDOVE]

Here's a little reply for the thick I composed:
"As much as I'd like to accommodate you, I'm afraid
I've got into such a habit now of judging my own
behavior,I couldn't possibly burden you with that
task." It really leaves them nowhere to go,hope it
is of use to you.
Regards,
BLUEDOVE