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Old Jan 26, 2015, 10:37 PM
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Why do I feel so damned guilty about that?
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Old Jan 26, 2015, 10:59 PM
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I believe it is referred to as: "buyer's remorse". Any time one makes a major purchase, there's a tendency to go through a period when you think to yourself: "OMG, what did I just do?" A car can be a big expense: gas, repairs, insurance, etc. So I think it would be natural to experience a bit of this buyer's remorse. This too shall pass...
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Old Jan 26, 2015, 11:01 PM
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Can you afford the car? Did you need the car? Are you denying someone else something because of this purchase? If the first two answers are yes and the third no then you should just celebrate the purchase and enjoy your new car.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 12:22 AM
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I believe it is referred to as: "buyer's remorse". Any time one makes a major purchase, there's a tendency to go through a period when you think to yourself: "OMG, what did I just do?" A car can be a big expense: gas, repairs, insurance, etc. So I think it would be natural to experience a bit of this buyer's remorse. This too shall pass...
Not exactly buyer's remorse in my definition but 6 of one and half a dozen of the other. I guess remorse is remorse is...
I've owned a lot of cars, trucks, and motorcycles.
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Can you afford the car? Did you need the car? Are you denying someone else something because of this purchase? If the first two answers are yes and the third no then you should just celebrate the purchase and enjoy your new car.
Thanks but you know its really not that simple. Apparently I can afford it but I'm not exactly in a financial comfort zone. It wasn't an expensive car. Did I really need it? No, it's strictly for fun. Technically I'm not denying anyone else anything but I spend more money feeding cats than I do feeding myself if that helps.
I don't know... this was a silly idea for a post.
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Old Jan 27, 2015, 01:07 AM
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Soo George, you bought something fun, affordable and just for you, now you feel guilty! Think maybe it's cause you don't think you deserve it?

You do deserve it you know.
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