[TYMBERWOLV]

I have had the opportunity to kinda look at what my life is about and the general purpose

I believe that we are set into this world with gifts and purposes/ It is our choice if we decide to use them and how they are used ...

I have come to the harsh conclusion that i have been destined to be the "foundation friend"

What I mean about the foundation friend is I am the one when the poop hits the fan it is I that they think of . See I am not good enough to be the friend that they want to hang with. I have picked people up from the ground brought them up and they have left until another crisis happens.

I have accepted this role in my life ..... But what happens when the foundation cracks when the foundation cannot withstand all the weight .

What happens then .... See I am an observer I watch and listen..

I have been going thru some real hard times and I have observed that people are like roaches when the light is turned on. They scurry along to avoid being seen....

So if I hurt and I feel pain it doesn't matter because I am seen as the foundation the strength for everyone else . So they just feel he will be fine .... What if I am not fine what if I want to run n hide what if i never want to see the light of day again.

Point of the Post is --- regardless where I am at in my journey of life I am the foundation and strength ... But even the best built civilization cannot withstand the test of time .... they all have crumbled under the pressue


Tymber

[SweetSunshine]

((((((((Tymber))))))))) Just wanted to remind you that I am here for you when you need a friend. always~ You know where I am . Anytime ok?

Hugz
Bethy

PS thank you for being there for me also. I look forward to talking with you so much.

[snowflake_48888]

((((((((tymber)))))))))))
Even the strongest foundations need repair and protection over time. But the best protection is the maintenaince that is done continually on the foundation.....not when it needs it but in a daily check.
Somedays you can do the check but other days you may need the help of others to check your foundation. But you have to be willing to show that you need the foundation checked. Do some cleaning up...tear down the bushes....rip out the roots....let some light threw so the real friends can see..........
Love ya tymber,
Snow

[Wants2Fly]

These do not sound like real friends, tymber. Friendship is supposed to include mutual support, I think. I hope you find some friends who offer you more appreciation.

[sickntired]

with snowflake.

Sometimes "foundation friends" dont tell us what they need and when they are hurting cos they are busy helping others be strong.

I am pleased that you have posted about this,I understand what you are saying and hope that you will feel cared about here at all times.

Thankyou for letting us know how you feel,you write beautiful poetry.

[desperado]

"Physician, heal thyself (1st)".

It's a very difficult balance.....we all have our stuff to prioritize & deal w/..........& some take > advntage than others......

I can empathize, Tymber. Chin up. Ppl care about you.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
-- Elanor Roosevelt

Just like no one can take advantage of you w/o your consent.....(even though it seems untrue)..keep this in mind; hope it helps.

Des

tymber i am a phone call away any time you need me. i've always said that

please look after yourself. i love you. youare a dear friend

loveand gentle hugs

[agony007]

you already know what u mean to me so i do not need to post it... but just for reassurance you are not only my foundation, u are my pyramid that wraps around me and shelters me. i hope that i too can be you pyramid.



love always,
agony

[nothemama8]

Tymber, I soooooooo understand, I too have given support and when in need the single person I support never replies on the forum, I would like to see that person reply online NOT by phone

[TYMBERWOLV]

I am just taking this time to learn more about myself...

I really love you guys here and I hope from experiences we all can learn that our lives are short that possibly tomorrow is our last.

So I can ask to use me as an example to see that us " foundation" friends never run never leave and endure the storms of life so you don't have tooo

Thanks to all that has and will reply

Tymber