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Old Apr 24, 2007, 09:58 AM
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In 3 hours I have to stand for my defense of my masters—probably one of the most stressful things I will do in my lifetime…and I have just had the worse possible crisis at work. I work with doctors so it is confidential, so I can’t go into detail….but, this is probably the worse thing that could happen to me. No, I am not blowing this out of proportion. I am very realistic in saying this will cause me a serious reprimand or possibly the loss of my job.

My supervisor got on me for not delegating work—so I delegated work—but I did not follow through and make sure it was done correctly. The person doing it had been doing it for 19 years—I trusted her. Well, she was just let go a few weeks ago and we are starting to discover a few things that are problems. I dropped the ball, I let a MAJOR piece of paperwork fall through the cracks. I have already been told, yes, this was my responsibility. The only thing I can do is wait to see if I have a job in the morning…or whenever, this is settled.

A while back there was a post that said, “when it rains, it pours” or something like that…might even have referred to a rainbow after the rain. I don’t remember. Right now, it is pouring for me and there is no rainbow in sight…maybe a tornado or two.
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Old Apr 24, 2007, 10:28 AM
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Hi DepressMe,

I'm sorry you are feeling like this

its pouring for me...

However, I feel confident if you try to put whatever happened out of your head, I'm sure you can pull off this in a few hours

its pouring for me...

I understand the confidentiality issue, but I would think as long as whatever happened didn't affect a patient's well-being, and only related to paperwork it can be fixed.

My professors used to tell us that a Coca Cola was helpful before giving a presentation.

Feel free to PM me if you like. its pouring for me...

Let us know what happens.

Hugs,

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Old Apr 24, 2007, 10:29 AM
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I hope it turned out better than you thought.
Wishing you lots of good vibes....
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Old Apr 24, 2007, 10:52 AM
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((((((((((( DePressMe )))))))))))

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Please let us know how your masters and work situations go. I wish I had better words to make you feel better, but please know I care.

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Old Apr 24, 2007, 03:00 PM
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It sounds so scary and I hope that you are able to find some peace amongst the turmoil you are feeling.

Sending you soothing and kind thoughts.
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Old Apr 24, 2007, 03:19 PM
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Thanks everybody for the wonderfuler support! Yah! I passed my masters exam! Wow--that was scary...really truly, it was tough, but I did it!

As for work...I will let the chips fall where they will--nothing I can do about it now. Whatever happens, happens. I'll just hope for the best.

Right now, I am just going to focus on writing a paper--thats my next task. No rest, until June 1.

thanks everybody.
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Old Apr 24, 2007, 03:21 PM
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its pouring for me... ((((((((( DePressMe ))))))) its pouring for me...

With the different time zones Im not sure if you have already gone but either way I am thinking of you.
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Old Apr 24, 2007, 03:23 PM
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Just saw your last post.

its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me...

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Old Apr 24, 2007, 03:24 PM
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Congrats on passing your masters!!!!
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Old Apr 24, 2007, 04:50 PM
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Yay Masters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As for the other, just keep trudgin and know that no matter how the chips fall, you will be OK. And we're all here for you. Keep us posted!
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Old Apr 24, 2007, 05:02 PM
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C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S!

This is a major achievement in your life, and I hope you will give yourself a little time to savor the sweetness. Some times with friends, a special meal, an afternoon in the park. We all deserve rewards.
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Yay! I am so happy you passed your masters. its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me... its pouring for me...
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