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How do I stop projecting my problems on to others?
As a child I was emotionally neglected and now if I see someone even sort of neglecting their child in some way I lash out, become angry and can't think rationally. I just automatically assume the worst of them and believe they are also emotionally neglecting them, even if they aren't. Again I can't get myself to think rationally in the moment, what can I do to stop projecting my problems on to other people? I am not longer in therapy or on medication (haven't been for a year) because my insurance no longer covers mental health so getting psychological help is not an option. I am still trying to find a psychiatrist but no luck finding one that is affordable yet.
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To feel concerned is good, but what do you hope to achieve by lashing out? You don't seem to feel better for it, and I assume the recipients of your anger don't take your comments well?
There must be a better way of channelling your understandable reaction into something good - I am not sure what though. |
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