cave break

I won't be here much for a while. And tomorrow I may be closing my PM box. My reasons are similar to Simon's ... I feel I don't belong here any more. I feel I can't change some things that I feel are unfair and unjust. Those are my feelings. I'm sure others feel similar things, and probably for different reasons! I hope this post stays. If not, it will be another example of what I feel is injustice.... NOT any of the mods fault or the fault of any one person, just the wonderful Group Dynamics in any large group.. So I'm better off not being here much.

Love to darkeyes, Rapunzel, Sky, SeptemberMorn, Petunia, pegasus, jacq, Christina, jinnyann, Simon, mandyfins, ECHOES, therealme, Kathy, silver_queen, bebop, Julia, oksomaybeimnuts, esthersvirtue, Gemstone, rainbowzz, purplesecrets, SongBirdandDaisy, nothemama8, zorah, kd, January, inny, WinterRose, Direction, muffy, wantstofly, wanttoheal, zen888, Candy, ErinBear, bipolar_bear, Justice, missumom, Mel, Jean, Rayna, DePressMe, LMo, gardenergirl, emily4040, snowy, beelieving, Froggie, MentalPollution, Pickle, secretgarden, Sister, selfy......
.....(hope I haven't left anyone out, I probably have, so sorry ..) and everyone else who is a friend, you know who you are. I'll be in touch when (if ..) things are better here. I don't want to be a negative influence to anyone.

take care
Fuzzy

I understand...

Thanks Direction.

I've already edited my post about 4 times to add people I left out by mistake. I think most people here do know who their friends are, I would hope so. My apologies again to anyone I've left out but meant to include. I do not like exclusionary "games" and maybe I am "guilty" of that here. I'm not as wonderful as some, never claimed to be. .

Adding poetrylover and mybestkids, I'm sure there will be more. And I do welcome new friends/aquaintances/"xcontacts" and even former friends or probably more correctly aquaintances who went away, in some cases. There's too much rejection and pain in this world.

((((((((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))))

take care, dont be a stranger, we will miss you, and i understand

Thanks ((((((((((((((( Kathy )))))))))))))))

Adding recluse1, FindPeace, bipolarlady, Meta, Bethy, Always, Lothlorian, seeker, allthegirls (how could I temporarily "forget" you, growl at me!), Moonkin, jlove, boopers (where are you? ..) , ozzie (how could I forget you ), Eva (how could I forget you )

I don't know what to say.....I really don't understand...hope everything is ok

((((((fuzzy))))))))

TC,
Dee

Hey, I can't say knew you fully I did occasionally read your posts...I care Fuzzy...I'm taking a break too....if you ever need me...even when your gone look up to the sky...and tell me whats going on...I'll hear....somehow...I will....

Love Moonkin

we love the bear.

((((((((((((((((fuzzy))))))))))))))))))

((((((((Fuzzy))))))

Thinking of you and supporting and loving you in whatever decision is best for you.........will miss you though.

I am so sad to hear this, Fuzzybear. You have to do what is best for yourself and put you first. It won't be the same around here without you. Hugs and hugs.

I will miss you. Take care of yourself.

((((fuzzybear))))

awwwww ((((((fuzzy)))))) you will be greatly missed....take care of yourself...that is the most important thing...

snowy

(((((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))))))Take care.

((((Grrrr Bear))))

Hope that you will change your mind..would miss you very very much...

Eva..

Thanks so much everyone. I might stick around. I'm really not sure. Like some others have posted, I am hurt by certain things here, but I do still love this place, and most of the people here.

this forum needs a bear, its in the rules

Hey Fuzzy!

I think it's also in the rule that when you have so many people to say "Taking a break" to.... that you actually have to stay. sorry.

(((( Hugs )))) to you!!!

lmao, thanks (((((((( ECHOES ))))))))

((((((((((((((( allthegirls ))))))))))))))

My ((((((((((((((((((((((((fuzzywuzzybear)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I understand what you are saying. I know we all have to do what we feel we have to do to take care of ourselves the best way we can. If you take a break, I pray that is a healthful break and that you can find some peace and patience with yourself and your healing. I will miss you very much if you leave. You have always been very supportive of me and I do so appreciate YOU! But I do understand.



Love & Hugs to you my bear friend!
xoxoxo
Jean

(((((((fuzzybear)))))

I can understand a break, for I have had to take many myself... some short term and some a bit longer.... and at times I feel as if I dont belong and find myself wondering why I care so much if I fit in here... then I bury those feelings, probably wrong thing to do, and then I will get a Pm or comment from someone saying "thank you" or "thinking of you", or some other words of encouragment and I feel validated and continue on...

Sometimes a break really is the best thing for me... There are times when being here isnt healthy for me... During your break I hope that you get the healthy peace you need and continued healing...

My hope is that you get the validation you deserve and the encouragement taht you are needed and wanted here... I for one have found many insight in your posts.....

Be good to yourself, stay safe and healthy and I will be thing of you!

hi fuzz......you and i have been around here a long time....we know very well the ups and downs here and we know that the ups always outweigh the downs..........now look how many people love you here but you knew that....you're a smart bear!.......if you have to leave..make it a short break......like we said..the forums need our bear!..and when you are back.......just weed out the bad and nourish the good....love you

(((((((((((((( Fuzzy ))))))))))))))))

Life sure isn't easy... not in real life or online. But... it's still worth it!

Thanks so much everyone!

I still feel like crap but then that's normal for me.

You know where you can reach me. Anytime.

((((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))))) I'll miss the bear.