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Old Jul 07, 2007, 02:09 AM
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Hi All,
Ok, it's fairly clear that I'm a thread killer...I think that's safe to say. Making friends here

What I keep reading all over the place is that you all have such great friends here at PC. Well, now, I must say I feel a little left out. Perhaps, I'm not that great at making virtual friends, or perhaps I just don't know how?

I have good friends IRL so I must have some redeeming qualities. Maybe they get lost in the written word? Maybe I should just say "hi" now and again and leave it at that! I don't know...I'm puzzled. Making friends here

Well, let me tell you a little about myself and you can decide for yourself if I'm "friend-worthy."

I'm trustworthy. I'm hardworking. I care very deeply about people. I like people. I'm a helper by nature. I tend to see the humorous side of things, although not everything is funny. Have to say though, that I think I'm pretty darn funny, even if I have to say it myself! Making friends here

I'm like a Timex -- been kicked to *****, yet keep on ticking!

So, any input would be helpful. Not looking for pity or begging for compliments. Just curious how ya'll do it!!! Making friends here

As always,
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 02:14 AM
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Mostly PM someone you've posted with. You might just end up good friends. Making friends here Or someone might PM you.... Making friends here Making friends here
And chat sometimes is good too!!
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 05:25 AM
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How I made friends is in the chatroom and thru posts. After a while I got to know people who shared similiar interest as I did. But like in real life it takes time to build that relationship.
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 05:39 AM
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"I'm like a Timex -- been kicked to *****, yet keep on ticking!"...you got my vote...you made me laugh...hard to do somedays...

I know I've felt the same way as you did...then I just kept posting and posting (meaning responding)...sometimes helpful...sometimes not...sometimes I would get a PM thanking me...sometimes not...

Anyway...you don't have to make me laugh all the time to be my PC friend...
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 06:38 AM
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Making friends here ((((((((((((((((((((oikiedokie))))))))))))))))))))) Making friends here

I think this whole thing about you being a "thread killer" is completely coincidental.

I've been on PC for about 3 years now. It took me quite awhile to find my nitch of friends. What I found was the more I posted, the more I received in return. I thought at one point a few months back that I wasn't doing anyone any good so I was going to leave. The outpouring of wonderful responses I received back opened my eyes and I realized I had made an impact and made friends.

I would be honored to have you as a friend! Let's have coffee sometime and chew the fat eh? Making friends here

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Old Jul 07, 2007, 08:35 AM
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I like your name Okiedokie. My father use to always say...."Okiedokie Pokey"

I'm not sure why you think you are a thread killer. But don't take it to heart. Everyone I've met has been very nice. Some people take time to warm up to others, it has nothing to do with you.

Sometimes on the threads it can seem you are ignored...but just stick with it....be persistant.

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Old Jul 07, 2007, 09:26 AM
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I guess I have never thought of you as a thread killer. I am sorry you feel that way. Everyone seems to make friends in their own way in their own time. Chat and PM's are a good idea. I have always found your responses supportive and you may be surprised at how people have felt about them. Maybe you want to reach out first and see how it goes. Feel free to PM me anytime. BTW I think most of us feel like that timex at times. Making friends here Take care.

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Old Jul 07, 2007, 09:42 AM
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 10:04 AM
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I tend to see the humorous side of things, although not everything is funny. Have to say though, that I think I'm pretty darn funny, even if I have to say it myself!

I like funny! Making friends here

You and your dancing cat should come visit the Thread Wars or the Questions only game. It's a great way to meet people! (Well, those people THINK they're funny but they're really not) Making friends here

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Old Jul 07, 2007, 10:22 AM
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omg Petunia, you've outdone yourself with the skiing cat!!

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okie~~ you sound like a gem and I like Fuzzy's and Petunia's suggestions!

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Old Jul 07, 2007, 10:25 AM
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Okie, being a funny person on the Thread Wars and Questions Only game and knowing I'm funny most of the time, you are most welcome to enter into the FUN, we are all thread killers at one time or another
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 10:27 AM
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I haven't been around long enough to comment on this, really... but I don't think you're a thread killer. Often, yours is the last word in the Meds forum, but I think that's because you seem very knowledgeable on the subject, so there's no point adding to your excellent posts. You have a lot to contribute and I'm sure you would be a great friend.
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 10:32 AM
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Hi Okie Dokie. I think of you as being a good egg and I have no idea why you might consider yourself a thread killer.

I have a slightly different take -- I do not like getting into PMs with people. Once in a while, I PM, and after knowing a couple of people here for a long time -- meaning more than year -- we exchange some emails outside of PC.

I prefer the group threads, where I can get input from at least a few people and a broader point of view. I block a few people for personal reasons, but not very many.

It takes a long time for me to warm up to people, here or face2face.

There is absolutely nothing personal toward you or anyone else in that.
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 11:04 AM
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((((((((( Okie )))))))))

You are a dear heart and a good friend.

Hugs,

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Old Jul 07, 2007, 12:34 PM
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<font color="#000088">I think making friends is not really that hard to do,just be yourself,and friends will come. You sound like a great person,and a good friend to have.I would be more than happy to be considered as one of your friends! And I have read a lot of your posts,and I'll have to agree,you are funny,and I like funny. I have a pretty good sense of humor myself! My Dad used to always tell me that "Laughter is the best Medicine",sometime's when I change my quote at the bottom,I put that quote from my Dad,because I really believe it's true.
Feel free to PM me anytime! ((((((((((OKIE DOKIE))))))))))
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 01:33 PM
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Making friends here Gosh, you've all warmed the cockles of my heart -- truly!

Alrighty then, it's official, I will keep on posting my thoughts, good or bad.

Thanks so much, friends! I'll see you on the boards! Making friends here Making friends here Making friends here Making friends here Making friends here

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Old Jul 07, 2007, 02:04 PM
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Old Jul 07, 2007, 07:24 PM
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ok whats next a rollerblading dog Making friends here

okiedokie, hello i'm Vanessa, it's a pleasure to meet you. i usually hang out in social chat with so many wonderful people here, we always try to have fun, helps makes the days brighter, i look forward to getting to know you as well i have alot of others on here, so hope to see you in social, that cat of yours will be doing flips in no time once your in there.
btw.. i always say okiedokie... Making friends here

take care , your new friend
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 04:54 AM
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hehe i know i have been a thread killer myself. and i still am sometimes. but we should remember that it`s just the "luck" thing.
sometimes you come in the middle of an hot discussion, and sometimes you say the last word.
it happened to me a lot.
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 08:41 AM
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It was a pleasure getting to know you in chat last night. I hope you will continue to join in.....

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Old Jul 08, 2007, 10:37 AM
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First of all Snow .. your avatar reminds me of my Aunt Mildred hahhahaah!!!! Tooo funny!

Okiedokie... my goodness how many times do we have to go thru this.. I AM THE THREDKILLER!!!!! hahahhha I have been here almost 3 yrs.. sorry .. (I think I said 4 to someone last night when they asked) I had a brain fawt lol , and I have had many threads go unanswered or just went caplop(sp?) lol. So dont get your britches all up in a wad over it my DEAR FRIEND ( ahem ) Your very well liked around here. Just sometimes people dont know what to say or they get busy etc etc. I loved having you in chat last night!!! You were much fun and had a hoot of a time! Keep smilin honay!!! Yer ALRIGHT!!!!
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 02:22 PM
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Ok, so I will unbunch my panties!

I had a TON of fun with you in chat last night too!!!! You ought to consider doing a stand-up routine! How about America's Funniest Commedienne!!!?? Making friends here Making friends here Making friends here

Well now, DEAR FRIEND, yer awight yer little self!! Now, no more fawting, ya hear?
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