[sandworm]

I feel like life my whole life has been a mess
and I never had that mentoring relationship i wanted.

I feel I would heal if I could be there and be that for someone
else. but I don't know how... how can i do that. I
need others there to work with them through their problems with them
just to figure out my own challenges.

IF i can just have a frame work, a conceptual ideaology of
what I believe. something i could pass on, but it seems
people to not embrace my way of framing it.

I feel like I am in a world of people who are one religion and I am
practicing another, and reading from a totally different culture and book.
IF only I could share my W.R.A.P. or my mental health model and have someone else share it in common.
it is not that I need them to validate me, or validate the way i
solve my problems. no, I just wish I had someone that understood and
~got me~; that is if they understood what I was doing to get to
my mental health.

perhaps if I share with some of you some of the models I came up with and
see if it speaks to your listening. I view it as
a speech writer testing his speech on friends to see if they nod and
go, YEAH, i get you. AND i can get behind that way of looking at it.

Thank you.

Sandy.
Be N.I.C.E.
Do BREAKFAST
Be rational, realistic,,responsible, and resourceful.
Be Honest=
Be a light unto yourself.
Plan accordingly.
Ingenuity
Be Faithful=
Be Happy=
Silence is Golden:
Bare necessity.

[Lost_in_the_woods]

I am not dual dxd so I have never been in a W.R.A.P. program/ group...but the things you listed down bottom are all very wise and constructive feedback for anyone I think. We all regardless of what our issues are can always use new tools and POVS to consider towards further self wellness. I do not personally believe in following just one way or another...I think it is best to explore what all paths have to offer and take what you need and leave the rest. That being said, we all do have individual inate learning styles, so that is why I believe ppl are drawn more to one disciple over another..bc it compliments their learning strengths, but that doesnt mean that a piece from another disciple can't apply, just that overall that disciple do not speak as loudly to them as another. "Open minds; Full hearts;Can't lose!"