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This is a long story, so bear with me:

Around one year ago, my brother loved this girl you see. She was 14. They fooled around and yes- had sex. I learned about this on my own when I looked up what he was posting on another forum (I'm not that nosy really- I just get bored...you know?) of course the news WAS rather shocking.

This girl is like a poison, and she changes people forever. My brother thought that the relationship would last forever. But when she said that she had feelings for our soon-to-be STEP BROTHER he told her to follow her heart. And guess what? She dumped him. For are step broter.

Okay, he is 19, she is 15.

At first it was this huge conflict because she was just so...young. I swear to god she has screwed him up so badly. He used to be so calm and composed. I liked to talk to him because he was the only other person really into an intellectual conversation. Now? He is so immature, and sometimes he acts crazy. He says that before was a 'mask' and this is his 'true self' but if this was true then it sure would be a suprise because I can usualy tell what people are really like. All I get from him now is a feeling of being ...sick. Like something is wrong, false.

Yes, they fooled around, and we all know what that leads to.

One thing this girl LOVES to do is play head games with people. She screws with your head for fun. So of course, my step brother plays along and screws with us for no reason other then their own entertainment.

One day, our step brother decides after the upteenth phonecall during the day (Yeah, did I mention she is borderline stalker she calls so much?) that the relationship is really unhealthy and they broke up.

We THOUGHT everything would be okay.

But nope- a few weeks later they got back together (or so I hear) my step brother continues to harass my brother's current girlfriend (he does that alot when he's with this girl) and my brother is sick of his crap and says that if he continues to screw with us then he'll simply destroy him with all the information that he knows. I like to put it as "I have enough dirt to put you six feet under" which he has also now adopted as his slogan.

If he talls anyone then my step brother will go to jail for rape (because she is minor whitlist he is not) and his mother is so emotional that it would just...kill her. Dad would be all pissed off and upset, which in turn will upset us too. 'Causeif Dad and his relationship are going to hell- we'll be dragged along for the ride. And it's not like I can really depend on mom and my step-dad either because they have their own issues.

So yeah.
My family and hence- life is just a ticking timebomb before everything is ruined.
All because of some crazy red-headed...
Yeah, I'm not going to finish that sentence, it would probably offend someone.
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[pachyderm]

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Kaika said:
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This girl is like a poison, and she changes people forever.

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Maybe not forever.

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I have red hair. One can hope for your brother's sake (and hers) it is not fatal.

Maybe you can help him or find help for him so it isn't.

[Soidhonia]

Hello ((KAIKA))). I am sorry for your struggles at this time. The main thing to remember at this time is to keep yourself safe at this time as well. Your brother is going to have to live his own life and make his own mistakes, and you ned to keep your mental health safe and try not to become the mediator for the situation for your own sake.(Easier said than done I know). Please think about yourself at this time and less about the situation that is going on in the household. Take care and PM aytime if you wish. Soidhonia

[Cheri]

You might want to tell him if he is 19 and she is 15, he can be charged with statutory rape (which the parents might do, even if the girl wouldn't). Maybe he'll think twice about the relationship.