[Marylin]

Today is a new beginning for me.I have resolved to give up all people.places,pursuits that limit me and abuse me and I am striving to be free and to come out of myself and out of my comfort zone.

Hence I am banishing my sister completely from my life,after being forced to communicate with her via text about my mother's cancer condition.I was also manipulated by her into giving her information I didn't want to give her.
I am never engaging with her again.i hadn't seen her for two years, last year she got hold of my keys and let herself into my house without my permission and messed with my stuff.Then when mum got ill she used it as an excuse to talk to me again.NO NO NO,that is it from today on as far as I am concerned she doesn't exist,and if she does I don't know her,she is nothing to me.

I also left a forum I have not been appreciated on and had been unfairly treated by the mods there.So though I will miss other members there that I have been friends with I do not think that those that run the forum deserve my contributions,so I am no longer going to use the forum or support them.
I am not going to feel bad or regret this even though I was a member of that forum for five years and contributed a lot in all that time.
I left Facebook four years ago and never regretted it cos that is a vile and violent place to be a part of.This forum mistreated me and took me for granted and was a bad place too so I am making a good decision to leave it.

This is my year for change and for making progress and to succeed.I am finally overhauling my life and getting rid of all the people,stuff and places in my life that have been holding me back.

[MickeyCheeky]

Thank you for this post! It takes a lot of courage and probably even time, but I hope it will be all worth it

[Unrigged64072835]

Good for you! Hope this will remain a safe place for you.