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Old Jul 01, 2017, 08:07 PM
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My sister came from out of town to spend the 4th of July with my mother. She has a BA- from the UW. She is the master mind I believe in the attempted institutionalization of me in march. She called my therapist and asked for his input. He said definitely not I need support and not in that way. She went ahead anyways and called the police on me. By the way I live next door to my mother and took care of her. She came over and was being very unsupportive and I told her to leave and she called the police. I was cooperative with them and they called my therapist to see if I was okay. My therapist was very upset about this. He and I both agree my ex-wife could have ended up here in my house. I told her and other family I was detaching from them because they don't understand mdd and anxiety. She won't listen and will be trying her best too make me the bad person I'm not.
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Old Jul 01, 2017, 09:17 PM
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I'm sorry you had this experience with your family but I'm glad your therapist had your back. It's hard when family doesn't understand and is unsupportive. You sound like you're doing what you need to do to take care of you by detaching from your family. I wish you well.
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Old Jul 01, 2017, 10:48 PM
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She may have be smart intellectually but that in and of itself means nothing if she is just nasty. She called the police on you in your own home? Grrr.

Hope that she is gone when the holidays have passed.
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Old Jul 02, 2017, 01:32 AM
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i think sometimes our families can make things worse for us than we would like. Your sister is not a person you should spend much time with, she will always be looking for something that she doesn't like about you and she is probably jealous too. So what if she went to college several years, she has no street sence or common sence. I have family like that and i try to stay away from them as much as possible.
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Old Jul 02, 2017, 03:08 AM
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Wow.. sorry you've had to deal with this. Hope you're ok now
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Old Jul 03, 2017, 03:53 PM
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Do you know she's a narcissist? If not,look it up! Never,never,never deal with her again!
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Old Jul 04, 2017, 10:53 AM
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Yes I believe your right and she and my ex- wife get along great because my ex- wife is a passive aggressive narcissist and my mom enables this behavior towards me. Just yesterday she took my therapy dog Cooper for 8 hrs. I have told them I don't want to talk to family because they are unsupportive but when she comes here she wants to upset me hoping I will speak to her. My mom is okay with this and always has been.
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Old Jul 04, 2017, 05:38 PM
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My sister came from out of town to spend the 4th of July with my mother. She has a BA- from the UW. She is the master mind I believe in the attempted institutionalization of me in march. She called my therapist and asked for his input. He said definitely not I need support and not in that way. She went ahead anyways and called the police on me. By the way I live next door to my mother and took care of her. She came over and was being very unsupportive and I told her to leave and she called the police. I was cooperative with them and they called my therapist to see if I was okay. My therapist was very upset about this. He and I both agree my ex-wife could have ended up here in my house. I told her and other family I was detaching from them because they don't understand mdd and anxiety. She won't listen and will be trying her best too make me the bad person I'm not.
Any way to make sure she has a restricted amount of calls she can make to the therapist or police? I would perform legal action against her if this continues
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Old Jul 04, 2017, 08:44 PM
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The weekend this happened I had a appointment on a Saturday with my therapist and asked her if she would like to come with me. I wanted the therapist to meet her. He was shocked by her treatment of me. She totally took control of the meeting and I was on trial and she was the prosecuting attorney. What type of legal action can you take ?
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Old Jul 08, 2017, 12:49 AM
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Taking your dog is cruel. How did she get access to the dog?
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Old Jul 08, 2017, 12:53 PM
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well unfortunately I live next to my mother so cooper is out on a leash and so she unhooks him and takes him next door I'm okay with that but 8hrs and 6hrs the next day is not right.
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Old Jul 08, 2017, 10:22 PM
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Grrrr. Is she planning to leave any time soon?
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 06:07 AM
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yeah she has been gone 5 days now.
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Old Jul 11, 2017, 07:00 AM
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