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Old Mar 14, 2018, 10:18 AM
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"Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."

I've always liked this quote, I think it can be quite inspirational. However, everytime I try to apply it to my own life, I simply think "It's not true."
I can't "climb a tree", nor can I "swim".. I can't do anything right, really.

Everyone is a genius.. except me, I suppose
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Old Mar 14, 2018, 10:29 AM
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No, I'm not a genius either so you're not alone MickeyCheeky. Don't feel sad, please.

But, yes, I like that quote as well.
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Old Mar 14, 2018, 11:44 AM
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Most people are not geniuses. Most people are average and there's nothing wrong with that.
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Old Mar 14, 2018, 12:05 PM
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Thank you I didn't mean to sound disrespectful Just wanted to vent, I suppose...
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Old Mar 14, 2018, 12:59 PM
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You don't need to apologize for how you feel, Mickey. You have a good heart
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Old Mar 14, 2018, 02:41 PM
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I would say that most people are not geniuses, and that's fine. But each person does bring something to the table. It may be hard to see what you bring, especially if you have low self-esteem. But rest assured Mickey, you are a valuable human being.

I see you bring kindness and support to other people's threads. I'd say that is definitely bringing something valuable to the table!
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Old Mar 14, 2018, 03:05 PM
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 04:48 AM
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I am not a genius either but I can be a pretty good cook and that makes my family happy.
I am amazed at how well you communicate in English since it is not your first language. All your posting probably strengthens your understanding.
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 07:24 AM
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Everyone has their own gifts, things they are good at and things they are not so great at. just be your true self and you'll be a genius to yourself and spread yourself to others. That is genius.
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 08:55 AM
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Thank you. I guess I just want to find out what can I do well. It's so frustrating
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 09:15 AM
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Mickey, you are a wonderful person. I think you are very supportive and kind-hearted. You do this very well. I'm not sure if you're referring to college and jobs, but I think a lot of things that people do well, take practice and while they may have a natural talent or ability, there's a lot of effort involved in doing something well. Take engineering (as just a random example), someone may have a natural ability in math, but they need to put in lots of hours of work and studying to get good at it and do well. It's not a smooth road either. For anybody.
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 10:29 AM
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I would substitute 'talented' for genius.
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 10:09 PM
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Sure, it is true of just about everyone. You have to be, just to learn language
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 10:15 PM
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Thank you I didn't mean to sound disrespectful Just wanted to vent, I suppose...
Maybe you’re actually shooting too low.

Everyone thought I was an airhead when I was younger. I’m not very good at ordinary things. I’m better at things most people hate, like reading contracts and writing policy.

What are your favorite classes?
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Old Mar 15, 2018, 10:17 PM
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Thank you. I guess I just want to find out what can I do well. It's so frustrating
I meant to reply to this post
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Old Mar 16, 2018, 02:25 AM
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My favorite class is cinema. I do mostly languages, though.
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Old Mar 16, 2018, 01:44 PM
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My favorite class is cinema. I do mostly languages, though.
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Languages! You are are a genius—that is very difficult.
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Old Mar 16, 2018, 02:08 PM
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My favorite class is cinema. I do mostly languages, though.
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Cool Cinema sounds interesting! And I think you're pretty good at languages.
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Old Mar 19, 2018, 06:03 AM
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I am far from smart, but I can say I care for my dog and I am a good sister and friend. And that is enough. Sure wish I were smart, but shouldn't blame myself. Please don't blame yourself.
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Old Mar 19, 2018, 09:41 AM
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Be glad that you're doing something. Whether or not you're naturally talented, you are challenging yourself and possibly improving/learning.
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Old Mar 20, 2018, 12:24 AM
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I think you are very smart. I cannot speak another language!
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