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Old Aug 11, 2018, 06:57 PM
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Does anyone else abused or not find sex a very disgusting thing to do?

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Old Aug 12, 2018, 04:46 PM
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Not with someone I would be married to that I truly love.....that was NOT the case in my marriage so I tried to avoid it because the feeling of love wasn't there. For me it is totally an expression of love within a marriage not just something to do.
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Old Aug 12, 2018, 05:29 PM
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I would find it that way if I did not love the person with whom I was having sex.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 03:13 AM
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Yes .I think it has a lot to do with the experiences and messages in my early life around sex.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 08:25 AM
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Does anyone else abused or not find sex a very disgusting thing to do?


yes.

it is something I will never, ever try

a lot of people think I'm wierd for it, that maybe so.. but I won't go their

I' m just not even the slightest bit curious
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Old Aug 15, 2018, 02:01 AM
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Yes. I'd like it to be intimate, I understand that some partners are this way inclined. I haven't experienced it intimately and if I have it always ends with him needing to 'finish it off.'.....I won't say more. That's the part that I find repulsive.
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Old Aug 15, 2018, 07:01 AM
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I think it has a great deal to do with your partner and the very reason you are having sex in the first place.
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Old Aug 15, 2018, 10:11 AM
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Yes i find i have that problem too. I have a very supportive husband and he is very understanding of why it's difficult for me to enjoy sex at times
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Old Aug 15, 2018, 12:22 PM
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Not at all. I somewhat regret that I was never a sex worker, because I believe I would have been a good one.
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