[Fuzzybear]

Why is it when someone really needs support, nobody is there?The silence is overwhelming, like the silence back then.

Why do the times I actually say something fade into nothingness? Or add to the labels (shy, worthless, garbage.....)

[nowheretorun]

i've never thought anything you gave here was worthless or garbage sweetheart... i'm just kinda in a funk of my own... but you matter... please feel good again...

[sabby]

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I think sometimes it's a matter of timing don't you? I know I have had times when I have needed some support (not meaning here neccisarily), and it seemed everyone I turned to was busy with their own lives, issues, families, work or whatever. I know how frustrating it can be. But I also know that people do care, even if they aren't available when I need them at that very moment.

Your words did not fade into nothingness......they were loud and clear and wonderfully spoken. Thank you for sharing them!

xoxoxo
sabby

[jacq10]

(((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))
Silence can be so scary and lonely ...
Please don't think you're worthless or garbage... you my dear are so far from that. I agree with Sabau with the timing ... unfortunately sometimes the times that we need support the most are when other people are hurting too. The best we can do is just lean on each other and wait until the storm passes.
You can have my shoulder to lean on if you'd like?

[_Hope_]

I am sorry you feel so bad. I know it is very important to be heard. I hear you and you can pm me anytime ok?

Linda

[Fuzzybear]

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Thank you all for hearing me,
much love,
Fuzzy

(((((((((fuzzy))))))))))

you could never be garbage or any of those things, I'm always here for you, just a pm away....I hear you though, I feel the same way sometimes, but, as was once pointed out to me, sometimes when you want to be heard, others are struggling themselves maybe or perhaps we expect instant understanding when it cant be done, I feel like this a lot, and if a certain someone doesn't reply I feel crap, but that's me and my feelings, I've learned that since being here too.

Love you baby bear, Jinny xx

[Fuzzybear]

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Thanks so much hon,
love you,
Fuzzy

[ErinBear]

Hi Fuzzybear,

Sorry things are so hard right now - I care about you too.

(((((Fuzzybear)))))

Hugs,
ErinBear

[Rapunzel]

It's that time of year when a lot of people aren't feeling well, I guess. Fuzzy, I think you are wonderful, and that will never change. I'll keep saying it, but you can also look back and see all the times I've said it before. It never changes.

Love,
Rap

[Christina86]

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[Irine]

hey Fuzzy YOU GOT ME THERE TOO!!!!!!!!!

i ofter see it happenes..you see, when the forums are dead they are DEAD ....i agree it is a matter of timing

but we can change this!!

check out my recomended topic................... really RECOMENDED.......lol..........

I dont know about you but I find that when I really need help I find it hard to ask for it, I am screaming out from my mind and hope everyone can hear it when I am being silly of course they cant ! Its only as I am getting better that I can tell somone how bad I needed help and by then its really too late as I am on the way up again......

Hugs and love Trish.

[silver_queen]

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Like others say I do think it's a matter of timing especially on an American site... early morning to us is the wee hours in America... with few ppl around

I hope you managed to get by

[wickedwings]

(((((fuzzy))))) i know what you mean.

[froggie2]

We are all here fuzzy. Just in and out. Email me i get the notice on my email. Lots of LOve .

[Perna]

When green is all there is to be
It could make you wonder why, but why wonder why
Wonder, I am green and it'll do fine, it's beautiful
And I think it's what I want to be

[allthegirls6]

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i wish this torture would end for you. we love you fuzzy, always will

[Fuzzybear]

Thank you all!


love,
Fuzzy

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[eskielover]

Fuzzy,

I know for me, I felt horrible, but my computer went down the week before leaving Kentucky to drive to California.....only one computer with me there......then the trip home....well, you know about that.

I know how horrible silence is when we need an ear & input to help us through a rough time. I feel bad when things are going rough in my life & I'm not available mentally to suport others.

Friendships are tough for me because it's always hard for me when I feel like I am getting more than I am giving.....IRL or on the internet. Sometimes it's hard to provide the support when we are in the middle of a crisis, but want you to know that I am caring about you no matter what issues I am dealing with. I just got a chance to see this post, look at the date & realize that I wasn't here for you when you most needed words & not silence.

You are always here for me & I appoligze for not responding before now......but letting you know that I care very much.

Hope you are feeling a bit better, but voids are a tough thing to fill.
(((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))),
Debbie