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Old May 17, 2019, 02:19 AM
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I tried to get rid of mine by killing off all the main characters when I was about 20, but that upset me (under statement) and I realized that if you're that upset about killing off imaginary people you yourself created, you really need help :-) The next thirty years of life and good therapy finally freed me but it was not easy.
I kill the imaginary characters in my head as well. New ones pop up but I keep either forgetting them by focusing my attention on elsewhere or kill them and never think about them again. It's a win-win situation.

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Old May 17, 2019, 04:31 PM
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I'm surprised at how many posters have reported this tendency.
Well almost everybody daydreams to the point of zoning out at some time. It's hard to say how many have it so bad it's a maladaptive trait that does significant harm to their lives.

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Somewhere I read that daydreaming is a form of dissociation. That sounds right to me. It always did tend to make me somewhat absent to the reality around me. I wasn't escaping abuse, but I probably wasn't always getting my needs well met.
That sounds like me. I retreat to it when I just can't bring myself to deal with it all. It's not like I was beaten or raped either, although I was mistreated. Badly enough to warrant all this? Compared to others? I don't think so. But how the heck should I know? I haven't lived other people's lives. Certainly I did not -- and still do not -- get certain basic human needs adequately met.

Sorry I haven't been keeping up in the depression forum. I hope you're doing okay Rose.
Thanks for this!
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Old May 17, 2019, 08:03 PM
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Thank you, Cepheid. I'm okay.

I think it's a 2-edged sword. Like, it can be a strength and a weakness depending on the context the person's in. It's pretty maladaptive behind the wheel of a motor vehicle. (I managed to total out my first 3 cars during low speed crashes.) But it's said that creative people often have this tendency. I believe it allowed me to think outside the box at times. I tended to feel very comfortable inside my own head. That can be a strength . . . or not, depending.
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Old May 18, 2019, 08:17 AM
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It's pretty maladaptive behind the wheel of a motor vehicle. (I managed to total out my first 3 cars during low speed crashes.) But it's said that creative people often have this tendency. I believe it allowed me to think outside the box at times. I tended to feel very comfortable inside my own head. That can be a strength . . . or not, depending.
I do this all the time behind the wheel. I think I have the ability to do both at the same time. I have never been in an accident.

I absolutely think outside the box all the time. I have a zillion examples of doing that.

Even as a kid though my parents said I had an active imagination.

One issue this I think works with is NOT liking fiction stories. For the most part I feel like I can do a better job on fiction stories and or... often if they do a good job I day dream other ways they could have gone.
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