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Old Jan 28, 2008, 12:09 PM
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I am feeling blue, sad and like crying from with in after I posted two replies in two different forums where I thought I might be able to help... and yet feared that the topics could bring up old hurts and demons in me - - - and it did......... I need support and a HUG -

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1.) Was I raped by my husband

2.) Sexual addiction - to paid sex

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Old Jan 28, 2008, 12:11 PM
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Special hugs... for a special person... you....

Those subjects... are triggers for others too.. you are not alone...
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 12:12 PM
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I'm really sorry that old feelings got triggered - especially since you were being supportive. Can you do something nice for yourself, eveen if it's little like making a cup of tea or coffee to help yourself feel better.

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Old Jan 28, 2008, 12:21 PM
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Thanks Freewill & Splitimage I need support and a HUG -

I just has me a good cry and now I am going to take a long warm shower..... then I might get out of the house for a little while to take my mind off the topics at hand.
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 12:56 PM
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 01:39 PM
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 01:52 PM
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 02:04 PM
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I am sorry you was trying to help and got hurt in the process, hugs to you from me ........... I need support and a HUG -
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 02:59 PM
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 03:02 PM
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You are a very special person. I hope you know that. I know when I get a response from you I always know that it came from the heart so here's from my heart to yours a (((U)))

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Old Jan 28, 2008, 03:27 PM
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you a person is genuine and truly cares when in giving their support to others, they sacrifice of themselves.

Hope that all are grateful for what you do....and i hope you feel better soon.
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 03:30 PM
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 03:39 PM
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 06:42 PM
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 06:57 PM
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Rhapsody, sorry I am a little late to join in...but I wanted you to know I am sending positive thoughts your way! Hang in there...
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 09:04 PM
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am a bit late too!!! but a hug is better late than never!!!! ((((bear hugs)))))))))((((((((group hugs))))))))))hehe Don't mean to make light of you getting triggered...I was raped by my ex hubby for years...I know where you are coming from...if you want to talk I am here to listen...i joke to get past triggers and am blunt to the point of clinical when talking about those things.

ok, I shut up now...melanie
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 09:55 PM
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Those sound like tough topics, indeed. Hugs and caring to you. I hope you're feeling better.

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Old Jan 29, 2008, 12:13 AM
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Thank YOU all for caring so much....................... the ((( hugs ))) helped to lift my spirit.
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Old Jan 29, 2008, 12:59 AM
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