[Greenleaves]

Today someone online said he/she thought I was a fake. Said I was naive. Too naive to be real.

I'm really really upset. HELP

This is one of my biggest fears, that people won't believe me.

HELP!

[Greenleaves]

OK, I"m feeling much better after chat.

Thanks to everyone in the chat room, especially SeptemberMorn.

(((((Tomi))))))

[Zorah]

(((((Greenleaves))))) sorry we couldn't be there for you,

so glad you're feeling better after chat

[curley]

I can not say for sure, but I am assuming your fear stems from experiences in the past and or possibly the present. Being told you are fake because you are naive says what exactly? Maybe you are naive or uninformed regarding the matter that was being discussed. It is unfortunate the name caller chose to think because of this you are fake! In these days and times it is sometimes refreshing to find naivety. You know who you are and what you are, dont doubt that because of hurtful or ignorant comments.

for you... being you....

just keep being you...

(((hugs)))

[Bethsway]

I agree that you should stay just the way you are!!! We believe in you! Glad you are feeling better after the chat you had!!

[youOme]

Any other website I go to other then PC has it's handful of assholes....just ignore them, they're there to be mean.

[Irine]

How can some1 be naive and fake at the same time?

Doens`t make that much sense to me

I understna you about the naive part thoguht. And it can pass..good that it`s passing.

[AAAAA]

(((((Greenleaves))))) I’m cynical, don’t get me wrong, but in my experience, only a dishonest person suspects dishonesty in others for no reason. I’m much older than you and people still call me naïve as if it is an insult. I’m sorry, unless you give me a reason to distrust you, I take what you say at face value. If that makes me naïve so be it.

Miserable people want to make everyone else miserable, don’t let them bring you down. You don’t have anything to prove to anyone!

[nothemama8]

Greenleaves, you need to ignore ppl when they talk like that, you have done well here since 2005, when you first posted. ppl who are insecure make remarks that hurt, hung in there sweetie your fine

[Doh2007]

I believe you. And I know what that feels like. It sucks!

[Greenleaves]

Thanks everyone! (((((everyone))))

I chat with the person who thought I was a fake and he/she believes me now. We are good.

I don't hold grudges.