[Kdragonsong]

When your at work and you feel like no one likes you and your left out of stuff, so you try to join a conversation and make a point but you talk before you think and you say the stupidest thing or say something that has NOTHING to do with what was said and people look at you like your on drugs (when you are or not). Or you start talking about something with out explaining why you are talking about it so your pulling %#@&#! out of your ***.

They laugh b/c it seems to be going over your head or they ask "what the %#@&#!" and you try to explain were you were going with it but it is obvious that you were trying to hard, mistook what they ment, and went off in the wrong direction. You know that for sure they are going to leave you out of conversations now b/c you seem like an airhead, and dont know what the %#@&#! your talking about.

Kind of like trying to write this... is it that I am just confusing everyone cause I cant organize my thoughts enough to make sense.

How do you fix your image after that?

[bflatgary]

Your image should be fine.

Unless you work in a very small office with only two or three other people, there will always be people at work who don't like you. That is true for everybody.

Joining in conversation is a good way to make friends. If you make a "stupid statement", chances are nobody will remember it for long, except for you.

[Doh2007]

And don't be too hard on yourself. We all go through that at one point or another. Maybe seek out one person that seems nice and talk to that person alone. It's hard to talk to a group.

[Labyssum]

I always say stupid things...My mouth keeps flapping when I'm nervous. In time when they get to know you, things should be ok.