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Mar 17, 2008, 10:12 AM
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I've been moping around the forums over the past week, spouting off "poor me" words.....feeling depressed....crying a lot.
Some of you already know why....but for those of you who don't, the reason I'm having difficulties is that my marriage has fallen apart and we're divorcing soon. Now, I won't go into details here, it's better put in Relationships, and maybe at some point I'll feel up to writing there, but right now I'll just leave it be. I just wanted ya'll to know that even though I'm going through this heartache, I'm still the same _sabby_ and I'm still here to love and support ya'll and I'm still standing and living and breathing and I'm going to be fine! For those of you who have known what was going on, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your love and support. You have helped me in ways that I cannot express and the words thank you just don't seem to be enough...but it's all I can come up with right now. Even though this is the end of a very huge part of my life....it is not the end of my life....I can choose to make a new beginning and that's exactly what I am doing. It will take awhile and if I seem to be a little "off kilter" now and again....please have patience with me and by all means, let me know  Just know that without everyone here at PC, I know I would be struggling so much more than I am right now. I have been blessed in so many ways and PC and all the members have been a huge part of those blessings. Thank you one and all!   With love & respect to everyone - sabby |
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#2
Mar 17, 2008, 10:35 AM
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((((sabby)))) hon I wish I had the magic words to help you get thru all this and words to maybe even help the situation in some way.
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Mar 17, 2008, 10:54 AM
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((((((((((((((((( sabby ))))))))))))))))))))
We're here for you. KD
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Mar 17, 2008, 10:56 AM
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((((sabby))))
I love you, and I hope things get better soon!
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#5
Mar 17, 2008, 11:19 AM
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(((((((((((((( be, kimmy & manda ))))))))))))))))))
From my heart to yours Thank you my dear ones!sabby |
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Mar 17, 2008, 11:45 AM
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((((((sabby)))))))))))))))))))
always here for you |
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Mar 17, 2008, 11:49 AM
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I know you are dear (((((((((((((( muffy )))))))))))))))) Thank you so much!!
sabby |
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Mar 17, 2008, 11:53 AM
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(((sabby))))))) hang in there : )
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Mar 17, 2008, 11:54 AM
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OOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHH
Been there sweet and its not a nice place to be I felt I had failed even though I hated him I couldnt get over the fact that it felt wrong in getting a divorce. In the end I went for councling to get over the end of the marriage ! It felt a weird thing to do but I had no other choice. If you ever want to talk make a thread cos I reckon lots of people will understand and will be able to give you advice that will help you and others........ 
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#10
Mar 17, 2008, 12:01 PM
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Awwww...*HUGS*. I hope things get easier.
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Mar 17, 2008, 12:10 PM
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(((((((sabby))))))) You take care of yourself.
love ya, chalmette
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Mar 17, 2008, 12:53 PM
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I'm sorry you are going through all that. Please know you are much loved here at PC. You have been a great comfort to me, if I can ever lend an ear, let me know. (((((((((( sabby ))))))))))
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#13
Mar 17, 2008, 12:59 PM
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the end of a marriage is almost always a sad thing, a loss. I am sorry for your loss and know you will continue to be wise and strong through your own healing. Peace.
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Mar 17, 2008, 12:59 PM
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((((((((((((( sabby )))))))))))))))
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Mar 17, 2008, 02:05 PM
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(((sabby)))
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Mar 17, 2008, 04:47 PM
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 sabs i had no idea but i was wondering where you had been.
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Mar 17, 2008, 05:18 PM
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(((sabby))) I'm sorry that you are going through this. It must be a very difficult time. But try and think of it as a new chapter in your life openning.
Hang in there and remember to be nice to yourself. --splitimage
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Mar 17, 2008, 07:51 PM
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(((((((((((Sabby)))))))))))))))
Lily
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Mar 17, 2008, 10:13 PM
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Sabster,
I wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time. I hope PC can be a place of support and refuge for you. Take care, Dee
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Mar 18, 2008, 02:36 AM
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(((((sabby)))))
Am always here for you and give you all the support you need. Have been there and I understand the hurt. Know you are loved so much. You have done so much for me even when you do not know it. Your strength and wisdom amaze me. Sabby, i would knock him out if i seen him for that he did. And I would you know what to him. He do not mess with our friend. (sorry sabby, I tried but they were bound and determined to write). Know you are loved more than you know and you are in our prayers everyday. Love, cami and insides Miss Sabby-- I love you and I am sorry. Victoria |
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#21
Mar 18, 2008, 06:43 AM
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Oh my.....I am so very blessed to have such wonderful people pulling for me.....supporting me......reaching out to me. Thank you so very much....now I'm crying tears of appreciation and love for all of you.
((((((((((((((((((((((((( friends ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Because of all of you, I am able to work through this difficult and painful time in a much more postive way. And because of all of you, I don't feel like I'm loosing everything.....I still have so much love and friendship in my life to help fill my heart to overflowing. Even though I have a leak in my heart right now....it won't be long before it is mended and back good as new again. Bless you all for reaching out to me. Thank you! With all my love & respect - sabby |
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#22
Mar 18, 2008, 06:55 AM
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(((((((((( cami & insides )))))))))))) ((((((((((( Victoria )))))))))))
I know you are all here for me. Thank you very much! Your friendship and love are so wonderful and I thank the Lord everyday for ALL of you! cami, I'm glad you let them write to me. I think it was important for them to be heard. My heart is overjoyed at their love and protection they feel for me. I'm proud of them and you for reaching out, for growing, for learning and for being my friends. And Miss Victoria.....thank you sweetheart...you are a joy and a love and I so appreciate you! I hope you all know that I will be ok! You are helping me as are so many others. When I am quiet, know that I am not forgetting you or leaving you...I am just working.....working through my pain. I know you understand how that is.  I love you all sabby |
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