Sorry

I am sorry if I upset anyone. Was weird, I went into chat and nobody would say anything. Others left. I dont know what I did, if I did do something please tell me. That was really uncomfortable. I am confused. Sorry.

justy

That must have been awful, Hun! I'm sorry that happened to you, but chat rooms can be that way sometimes. Nothing really personal, ya know? Try not to think right away that it has anything to do with you, ok? Those of us who have depression and anxiety tend to think that everything bad that happens is our fault, and it's not. We seem to fall into the guilt mode way too easily.

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(((((((((((((((September)))))))))))))))))))); thanks so much.
Yes, I agree. It was me thinking that I was not wanted there. I know thats not the case. I am sure that many were not feeling good and maybe didnt have much to say. I just wanted to say sorry to anyone that I may have upset. It was just really uncomfortable; but is okay. There has been times when I dont say too much either. I am too sensitive lately and with this back pain; well I am really grumpy too!

justy

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Hope you start feeling much better soon.

Take care of YOU.

justy, you have nothing to be sorry for...I am sorry that you didn't get a response when you were in chat. It was not you at all. For some reason, chat was very quiet last night, even though there were people there.

I know how hard it is to not take things like that personally, but there are lots of reasons people might not be talking...they might have stepped away from the computer briefly, they might be looking at something in another window and not noticed that someone had said something (what I was guilty of last night), or they might just not really be up to talking, but want to be in chat just to not feel so alone.

I hope you don't give up on chat...and I promise I'll keep a better eye out for you if you come back.

*hugs*
Jo

I do this all the time when im in chat. It will be quiet so ill go check baseball scores or post in my journal and come back and a full conversation is going. Other times im feeling down or angry or both and just dont have anything to contribute other than whining so i try to keep quiet. Lots of times if one of the people in the house asks for the computer i sometimes just click everything away in my silent pouty tantrum

awww. Thats so nice of you to say mj. I have just never had that happen before. Its okay, I was more worried that I said something bad or stupid to upset someone. I will be back in; we all know I cant shut up; lololol.

Thanks for the reply mj. Was good to hear.

justy

I wasn't there, but sometimes if there is a lot of people there, not many of us can all get through to one another, so please do not take anything personal, I find when there is 2 or 3 people there we can get through to each other faster.
Just do not feel anything of timing and such has to do with you.
You are welcomed here

Sincerely,
DE