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Old Apr 02, 2008, 07:11 PM
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i am just so.... annoyed.

he came back this afternoon and made us dinner and now he and my mom went out to a dance class. At first they got in a small argument and he said "i knew coming back was a mistake i need a safe place" and he was going to leave but then my mom asked me and my little sister to leave the room so they could talk. The first thing he did when he saw me was kisses the top of my head and pats my back and asks if i need anything. I hate that he touched me ugh and I hate that he thinks he can just leave and then come back days later and think that everything is normal and the same as when he left. thats not fair. i liked just having it be my mom sisters and i. I slept in my moms room for 2 nights while he was gone and i just felt...safer? my mom was a totally different person and i thought we were getting closer and now he is coming back to ruin everything... again.

am i wrong to feel like this?

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Old Apr 02, 2008, 07:21 PM
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feelings are just that, feelings and they are neither right or wrong. However I am confused between your other thread saying you are sad and now this one. I would guess that you are scared. Scared he will leave again and cause a turmoil? Scared and wanting to protect your mom? I hope you feel better soon.
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Old Apr 02, 2008, 07:25 PM
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i was sad but i dont know now im just annoyed.
i confuse myself with my emotions.
its like i would be mad if he wasnt here and mad if he stays.
maybe nothing will make me happy
maybe im just ahorrible selfish person?
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Old Apr 02, 2008, 07:29 PM
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no you're NOT a horrible selfish person, you've got a lot of confusing stuff to deal with atm and NONE of it is your fault ! ! !
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Old Apr 02, 2008, 07:31 PM
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Yeah, what she said.
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Old Apr 02, 2008, 07:40 PM
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he's back You said you feel safer >>>>>. Let that be your answer !!! .
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Old Apr 03, 2008, 03:07 AM
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i would be annoyed too.
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Old Apr 03, 2008, 07:36 PM
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so sorry you are having to deal with such stressful and confusing situation.
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