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Jun 13, 2008, 05:19 PM
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I'm asking for forgiveness for being such a terrible horrible person, to those who "hate me with cause" (sorry sky
 not that I deserve forgiveness, or anything good, ever.   
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#2
Jun 13, 2008, 05:21 PM
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grrrrrrrrr fuzzy look in the mirror and tell your self what you would tell some else when they talk like this,
you are a kind wonderfull person repeat kind and wonderfull caring person
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#3
Jun 13, 2008, 05:23 PM
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How about instead you ask to forgive those who hate?
Just a thought. gg
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Jun 13, 2008, 05:24 PM
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Bear, "hate" is a very strong term. Those who hate things that are not deserving of hate, themselves have a problem You are not deserving of hate. If someone hates you, they don't deserve your forgiveness. You can give it just the same, yes.
Please look at the larger grouping of people who like you, and appreciate you, rather than at the one or two misguided individuals with their own issues who might consider hating you.  
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#5
Jun 13, 2008, 06:30 PM
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Asking for forgiveness for being hated?! How does that work?
What is it you have done that needs to be forgiven? Hate originates within the other person and is a product of the other person's perceptions. It hurts to feel it being directed toward you, but if you can see that it's about the other person it can change into something to be curious about. A friend and co-worker has an unpredictable and quick temper sometimes. She will snap at me and I have been stung by it; but when I can see that it's about her then I just wonder what it is about her that made my innocent comment or whatever cause her to react like that. I've decided it's a defense of some kind. It isn't about me, it's about her. I agree with Sky, turn your focus to good things, to the people who do care about you.  
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#6
Jun 13, 2008, 07:45 PM
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{{{{{{Fuzzy}}}}}}} you are so special, and if anyone dislikes you, that is their problem, not yours. I think you deserve all the wonderful things in life.
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Jun 13, 2008, 07:48 PM
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((((((fuzzyb))))))
i love you
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#8
Jun 13, 2008, 07:50 PM
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Fuzzy, although I don't know you very well I can't imagine that you wouldn't deserve anything good. I hope things get better for you soon.
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#9
Jun 13, 2008, 08:03 PM
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Fuzzy i can't think of anyone who could hate you ..... if they do it is their loss...... how could anyone hate you? i love you and i know so many others here do ..... don't be so harsh on yourself furry paws, it is bothering you because you are letting it, concentrate on all the love that surrounds you here, there is so much of it, i've seen it with my own eyes, big squishy huggies, a warm blanky, a cup of hot chocolate and a big reminder of everyone here who thinks you are the best
 big love from me, Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo  
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#10
Jun 13, 2008, 08:11 PM
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((( Fuzzy ))) You're great.
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Jun 13, 2008, 08:45 PM
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(((((( fuzzy ))))))
loving you! |
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Jun 13, 2008, 09:14 PM
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Luv ya, Fuzzy!
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“We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impression to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of.” – John H. Groberg 
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#13
Jun 13, 2008, 10:15 PM
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ya Fuzzy!!! Dee
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#14
Jun 14, 2008, 09:11 AM
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Fuzzyhoneybear, the only one that needs forgiveness is anyone who hates , if ppl don't like you think of all of us that do, no I take that back, we don't like you we love you.
make your brain stop saying bad things to you
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