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Jun 16, 2008, 08:30 PM
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Hi everyone, BJ here. I just wanted to tell you all that I am very sorry I haven't been around so much. I do miss you all a lot.
I have been dealing with some flashbacks and emotions that go along with them, so that really sucks! Also, my BF is back so we are trying to spend more time together to work on our relationship. The weather is gorgeous so we are going for more walks and enjoying the parks and fountains. Anyways, I just want you all to know that I have not abandoned anyone and I hope you all are well.  BJ
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Jun 16, 2008, 09:35 PM
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((((((((((OnlyMedid ))))))))))))))))))
I am glad to see you, but I am sorry that you have been going through a hard time.
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Jun 16, 2008, 09:41 PM
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(((((((((((((((onlymedid)))))))))))))))))
sounds lovely ..... missed you, tc Jinny xoxoxoxoxo |
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Jun 16, 2008, 11:40 PM
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Thanks you two. It's nice to know I was missed by you. It's been so long that I wouldn't be surprised if I was totally forgotten by some.
I talked with T about the flashbacks today and that I am, for the first time ever, showing emotion surrounding them. Before they were merely memories that I would repeat over and over again with sheer numbness....almost as though it were about someone else. It is scary to think that I am going to have to feel more emotion like that in order to "heal". My BF and I are getting along so well. He is helping out with some bills with the money he makes off of CafePress, so that is positive....he's trying! LOL Thanks again for not forgetting about me and posting back... How are you doing? BJ
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Jun 17, 2008, 01:41 AM
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BJ - wondered what happened to you!!
hope you're ok! check back when you can and best of luck with everything!
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Jun 17, 2008, 01:46 AM
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 onlymedid !!!!!!!  >>> For YOU !!!>>>      Missed Ya ... Glad the winds have change and the walks are allowing some gentle breezes To grace the waves of tides as the come in and draw away ... 
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Jun 17, 2008, 03:19 AM
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BJ....it is good to take care of our relationships in the real world too! We will be here whenever you have time. Enjoy your walks.
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Jun 17, 2008, 07:21 AM
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Thanks Kiya.
I suppose I shoulda let you all know I was gonna be gone a bit, huh? I just didn't know it was going to happen.  I haven't been able to type as much, my shoulder is still bothering me from my April car accident, so I usually just have enough time without pain to check emails. I am hoping to be around more soon. I will post when I am able. BJ
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Jun 17, 2008, 07:24 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I_WMD said: onlymedid !!!!!!! >>> For YOU !!!>>> Missed Ya ... Glad the winds have change and the walks are allowing some gentle breezes To grace the waves of tides as the come in and draw away ... </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Ahhh, the beautiful words of I_WMD, how I have missed them. You are a true gem! Yes, the winds have changed and I am SOOOOO grateful. I hope you and Donna are ok! Thank you! BJ
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Jun 17, 2008, 07:28 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
DePressMe said: BJ....it is good to take care of our relationships in the real world too! We will be here whenever you have time. Enjoy your walks. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yeah, IRL relationships are very important. We are trying to spend more time with each other and listening to each other. We sorta stopped doing that before he left me in April. We are getting along great right now and I think that has a lot to do with my honesty about my DID and Bipolar. He understands that just because I don't tell him every little thing about what is in my head, doesn't mean I don't need him or love him....just that I need inside time to myself, too. My anger is a bit more under control, too! I am so jazzed about that. The walks are so nice here...Idaho is really nice this time of year as it isn't too hot yet! Thanks! BJ
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Jun 17, 2008, 09:59 AM
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I remember you
Welcome back!
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Jun 17, 2008, 11:19 AM
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It sounds good - what are you doing. I hope everything works out wonderfully.
Sending good thoughts. peace and love, nightbird xoxoxo ((((jinnyann, I love you pic, your a beauty!))) xoxoxo
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Jun 17, 2008, 07:11 PM
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(((((((((((((( BJ ))))))))))))))
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Jun 17, 2008, 07:41 PM
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Good to see you! Glad you are able to get out and enjoy the beautiful weather.
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Jun 17, 2008, 09:19 PM
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Thanks a lot everyone. I know that I can come back here anytime and still feel welcome. You are truly wonderful friends and I am so glad to have you all in my life.
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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Jun 17, 2008, 10:14 PM
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Glad to hear from you BJ and that things are going ok.
(((onlymedid)))
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Jun 18, 2008, 07:00 AM
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Glad to know youare doing well. keep it up1
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#18
Jun 18, 2008, 09:51 AM
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Just take care of yourself...PC will be here waiting when you have time!!!!
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