[itsjustme111]

You know I can understand mistakes. But over and over again?? My mom called right before my doctor's office tonight. She was so upset I had a hard time understanding her. I had to get her to repeat everything, felt bad.

My dad was taken to the department where they do this test. He waited and waited....and waited. Finally someone came out and said, "Sorry, we can't do this today. We will be up for you at 8:00am."

Well this did not go over very well with either of my parents. They gave no explantions, nothing. AAAHHHH. My mom is worried because she is supposed to be home tomorrow; the new owners of their house are taking posession. Mom has the keys!!!!!!!!!!! She called the realitor and told him to get the key he has cut and they will have to wait until she gets back for her keys. What can she do?? I said to maybe send them by bus or something if they make a fuss about it.

Anyway, my oldest sister is with them. Kind of surprised, she did not say a word that she was going. She took her kids with. And my other sister is heading up in the am. My mom was kind of concerned with everyone coming. She said they are so tired that having all these people will be a little stressful. She feels bad in thinking this but man, SHE IS WIPED OUT. I told her to ask them for breaks when needed. They have to understand. I also said that maybe it will help with some distraction. The kids are really good. They are not too young. Youngest is 9 and oldest is 14. So I think it will be okay. I think she is overwhelmed with everything.

Justy

[SeptemberMorn]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Justy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Maybe your syblings will be good for your parents. Hopefully, they will pitch in and do most of the work and let your mom rest. Think possitive, Hun.

[itsjustme111]

Yes for sure. I think it will be helpful. My mom was just overwhelmed.

I am having an okay day; meeting went well.

Justy

[itsjustme111]

Hi there. Okay not going to type lots cause my IV is in.

Dad is doing great. They found some blockages and dealt with them. He is going home tomorrow and following up with his doc.

Great news hey!!!!!!!! So happy for them. Mom sounds so much better.

Justy

[SweetCrusader]

I'm glad things are going better!

[ktp]

That is very good news Justy.

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) doll. Hope he continues to recover with no problems. As for you, you take it easy and don't get that IV too sore by overworking yourself. That can get really uncomfortable.

Take Care !!!!!!
Kimberly.

[itsjustme111]

Thanks everyone. Kind of funny, I just talked to mom before I came on here. They are just driving home now. They needed to keep him till this morning.

My sister is driving behind them to make sure they dont run into any problems. Then they will head home from there. It only takes a little longer going this way but makes everyone feel much better that they are travelling together.

So cool hey. I want to thank everyone for supporting me through this one. Was a real worry but u all made me think clearer through this. Thanks so much.

Justy

Justy 12597496;
So glad that things have turned out well; take care of yourself.
Blessings,
Jon

[itsjustme111]

HEHE. Thanks Jonalexa. Yes, this is good news. I just talked to my oldest sister. They got home late last night. She was telling me that my dad has had a reality check with all this. The doctor told him if he continues to smoke he will die.

So he had not had a cig the entire time being in the h and is not going too anymore. I am proud of him and I do hope he sticks with it. My sister also told me that my mom was not approved for this clinical trial for treatment. I will talk to mom later and get all the information. I am glad my sister told me though. Gives me time to soak this in before I talk to mom. Apparently mom is not doing so great. I knew she was not feeling good and in so much pain. But my sister said there is more to it. She is depressed. I am not sure what to say to her tonight but I think I will just listen, let her vent. Her doctor had suggested anti-depressants not too long ago. I was going to say something tonight but decided not too. She needs some time to allow herself to fall apart a little. She is strong but we all can't be strong all of the time. I will mention this when I think she may be willing to try some meds. Maybe she is already considering it. LOL, who knows, maybe she will bring the issue up.

So I am going to pray for them, everyday. We don't know the future but we can always hope. I have faith in them, always have and always will.

Thanks again, you are all great.

Justy

[Raynaadi]

So glad your dad is doing better Justy! Now we'll just hope they find something for your mom. You sound like you're dealing pretty well, so that's good!

[Wants2Fly]

Hi Justy -- I'm glad your siblings are pitching in to help. You sound better. I'm glad that you are taking care of yourself, too.

[itsjustme111]

Hi all. I spoke with both of my parents tonight. Their house deal is final and they got their money. Mom also sold her van and got a different one. They got a great deal. I had to chuckle when dad phoned. I asked him if he was running around buying vehicles with mom already. He said no, but he is glad to have a week off. He said he has a bunch of doctors appointments this week and is now on tons of meds. I am proud of him; he has not had a cigarette.

Mom sounds better. I guess she did approve for this clinical trial but they have to wait until her "lumps" grow in size. But they will be able to do it probably in January. She is happy. They just need to keep her pain down as much as possible.

They sound great!!!!!!!!!

Justy