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Jan 28, 2009, 12:47 PM
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CANADA: I was happy I got a Girlfriend she wants to be something more I helped her. but when she reached her dream I told her that "I'll help you with your dream even if I'm not in your dream I will still help you".... We reached her dream she got everything because I promise my self that her dream is my dream and after a couple of months she started talking to this guy well his more "popular than me, good looking than me" so i got mad because she talks to this guy everyday than me. I saw this letter that they should meet up at this destination I came rushing to there meeting spot i just saw her smile instead of getting mad I was happy because she smiled and the next day she broke up with me so I said she can its her life not mine because all i want to do is to make her smile when she left me with this guy I was happy and sad but i said to my self that I think I'm not better than him.... So if anyone can answer me what I did wrong? Thank you for answering.
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Jan 28, 2009, 02:13 PM
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You did nothing wrong,,actually you did a lot right... You cared for someone and helped her. For reasons outside of your control, she doesn't share the same feelings for you as you do her... Just keep being the gracious and caring person you are, and someone (maybe her) will see the real value in you... Try not to get angry about things that you can't control...it can be habit forming and hell,,most everything is outside of our control..  Lenny
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Jan 28, 2009, 02:22 PM
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Hello kokiru, welcome to psych central.
 I agree with Lenny it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong, sometimes when people grow through life they grow in different directions unfortunately we have no control over such things.If you have any questions feel free to private message any community liaison or moderator, here is a link to a list of forum leaders. http://forums.psychcentral.com/showgroups.php
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