[Mightyhammers]

Hey everyone, hope you are all well, I posted this on another forum but found this one as well so be good to get some advice

well over the weekend I had an argument with my GF about something really silly and we havent spoken in a few days, whilst doing some research I came across Petulant BPD and it scared me how she shows so many of the characteristics of it, I actually had a eureka moment. We were also talking the other week how she may also have mild OCD which also coincides with it.

anyways, the other day ( and Im kind of regretting it now ) I blocked her on my FB page, she realised that night and sent me a text saying 'nice to see you deleted me from FB, didnt take long did it. Take care' - thing is we've always had spats like this, but at the weekend it got to the point where I got so mad I just wanted her away from me for just a few days. Right now Im just doing the NC thing, but I feel really bad now that Ive found out about this condition that Im SURE she has - now shes supposed to be down this weekend ( she lives a couple of hours away ), do I get in contact with her and tell her what Ive found? tbh I think if I did she would just explode at me and that would be it - or do I just stay away and see what happens?

She has a few things that she has left round here, but there has been no mention from her that she wants me to send them back to her - We are so in love with each other but I really dont know what to do now, for all I know she may have deleted my number from her phone ( shes threatened to do this plenty of times )

Ive been thinking this over, and at the beginning of the year I went on a 2 week trip out of the country with a good friend of mine – I discussed it with her before I went and she said I should definitely go. During this time we weren’t in communication as much as when I was in the country obviously, Since I have been back though things have seemed to have detirotated since then – could it be that while I was away this triggered her fear of abandonment and she has been trying to push me away since then? Or am I thinking too much into it?

Do I contact her or do I just wait? she was supposed to be down this weekend but it looks unlikely now

thanks for reading

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Mightyhammers

Or am I thinking too much into it?

1) You are thinking too much.
2) You should read the book Three Men in a Boat - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia before proceeding anywhere further in your life.
3) You should stop using Facebook the way you are using it and find peaceful and helpful ways to use it, or, barring that, close your account.