[n_siller]

I had been with this woman for a little over a month when the secrets started coming out. I do not know if it was the meth that both she and her dad were smoking in the master bathroom while I was asleep or was it the stories of adultery that I would be told by her, or the simple fact that her entire life was just a drug fueled nightmare . I was so confused at times.

I had heard every possible story from why to because. I got a story about how her and her ex husband used to do meth and thats how they concieved a kid. Even more detail is revealed when she says the ex husband is using heroin and that is what drove her to go and commit adultery with their dealer. And she was cocky about it too.

I have caught her in lies when it came to texting other men, about sexual situations and I was right there...Did I have a right to flip out and just start spiralling out of control or should I have just kept letting her try to play the dominate woman card because she has kids ?

She fed all her friends and family every concievable line of ******** that could be had and guess what I have no mercy for someone like that anymore. I let my PTSD spiral out of control and that was my fault I guess....any suggestions?

[NWgirl2013]

Um... yes. I have a suggestion. RUN!
CUT OFF ALL CONTACT with this crazy woman and TAKE CARE OF YOU. PLEASE DO THIS. You are worth so much more than this situation has to offer, or NOT as the case may be.

YIMT today. I hope you can make the break immediately...Best to you

[n_siller]

Originally Posted by NWgirl2013

Um... yes. I have a suggestion. RUN!
CUT OFF ALL CONTACT with this crazy woman and TAKE CARE OF YOU. PLEASE DO THIS. You are worth so much more than this situation has to offer, or NOT as the case may be.

YIMT today. I hope you can make the break immediately...Best to you

I have been out of that situation for about 3 weeks. But it was very hard to walk away knowing the vicious poison she spits about men period. I think everyone in life has had it hard, but really seriously everyday was just a nightmare. I hospitalized myself twice because of PTSD and stress and even then everyone was telling me to RUN too...I was just to hard headed.

The best part was the fact that every time she got pissed about whatever she had the police on speed dial. Yep she was one of those people.

I was served with an ex parte because I literally told her that if she pushed/shoved past me one more time ....Lord help her ( she had already threatened to "beat my ***" ...I weigh 190 she was 120...I have combat training she has none...it would have been ugly . For her. Oh well now I feel like I am ranting...good to get it off my chest.

[foundthecure]

Originally Posted by n_siller

I had been with this woman for a little over a month when the secrets started coming out. I do not know if it was the meth that both she and her dad were smoking in the master bathroom while I was asleep or was it the stories of adultery that I would be told by her, or the simple fact that her entire life was just a drug fueled nightmare . I was so confused at times.

I had heard every possible story from why to because. I got a story about how her and her ex husband used to do meth and thats how they concieved a kid. Even more detail is revealed when she says the ex husband is using heroin and that is what drove her to go and commit adultery with their dealer. And she was cocky about it too.

I have caught her in lies when it came to texting other men, about sexual situations and I was right there...Did I have a right to flip out and just start spiralling out of control or should I have just kept letting her try to play the dominate woman card because she has kids ?

She fed all her friends and family every concievable line of ******** that could be had and guess what I have no mercy for someone like that anymore. I let my PTSD spiral out of control and that was my fault I guess....any suggestions?

you've been together for a month, and you take crap like this?

kick her to the kerb, go no contact and find yourself a woman with a shred of decency.

I wouldnt tolerate that after years of being together.. but 1 month.
Don't be desperate and cling onto her. There are 3.5 Billion others to choose from.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by n_siller

I hospitalized myself twice because of PTSD

Hmm... I am really at a loss for words. So you have PTSD. That means that somebody - a mental health professional - has diagnosed you. Has that person never advised you to be a little MORE careful than people are ON AVERAGE???

I mean, you got yourself into a situation that would have been difficult for a person without PTSD; you, with PTSD, should think not twice, not thrice, but ten times before getting yourself in such a situation.

If you do not take responsibility for your mental health, nobody else will.

I hope you will not repeat this harrowing experience.