[Tham]

What might be wrong with this younger brother of mine, whom I live with ?

Might it be borderline personality disorder, intermixed with schizoid, paranoid,
narcissistic and schizotypal personality disorders ?

Apart from displaying what he describes as ''extreme hatred'' towards me,
incessantly and chronically, communicating with me 90 % of the time vide
only mobile text messages which are weird, threatening, depressing and
highly abnormal, he has been pasting these ''Notices'' and ''Orders'' on
the front of my room's door.

Bear in mind that this is the profile of a 48-year old Principal Engineer at
Western Digital's huge plant in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, who earns close
to M$ 20,000 a month.

[GeorgiaGirl413]

No one here has the expertise to diagnose anything, especially not based on what you have posted. If you have concerns about your brother you need to contact a mental health professional where you live.

[allme]

Originally Posted by Tham

What might be wrong with this younger brother of mine, whom I live with ?

Might it be borderline personality disorder, intermixed with schizoid, paranoid,
narcissistic and schizotypal personality disorders ?

Apart from displaying what he describes as ''extreme hatred'' towards me,
incessantly and chronically, communicating with me 90 % of the time vide
only mobile text messages which are weird, threatening, depressing and
highly abnormal, he has been pasting these ''Notices'' and ''Orders'' on
the front of my room's door.

Bear in mind that this is the profile of a 48-year old Principal Engineer at
Western Digital's huge plant in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, who earns close
to M$ 20,000 a month.

Hi, hard to say what is wrong with him really, have you tried asking him? On second thoughts that could stir up more trouble! You are obviously concerned to come here and ask. Maybe send a txt saying you are concerned about his behaviour and you're worried about him?

Have you spoken to anyone else close to him about it? Is his behaviour the same with other ppl or is it just you?

[allme]

I just read your attachments, I don't see a personality disorder, I just see instructions and some anger there. Problem is there is another side to this story and maybe you need to sit down with him and listen to his side of things.

We can all take things wrong at times, especially if we expect it from them.

Wishing you the best!

I have to say that people here can't Dx anything really. the only thing that you can do is try to get him to see a dr to get looked at, but then it's not you so you can't make him.. really up to him. :/

[Tham]

Common sense would prevail that I was obviously not expecting a ''diagnosis''
from a mere thread, more of feedback from the people experienced with such
disorders on this forum as to whether it might match any or an overlap of several
personality disorders.
I live with him, I KNOW he is schizoid, at the very least, that is for sure.
How could it be perceived as ''normal'' as some have opinionated ? Have any
of you ever come across anyone in your lives - relatives or friends - who pastes
such things on your door ? No sane man or woman does this.
When I sent just a couple of the above attachments (particularly the printed one
mentioning ''Compulsory'') to a lady friend in Dayton, Ohio, some time ago, she
virtually jumped out of her shoes, saying he was ''crazy'' and a ''microcontrol freak''.
Another lady from the States said he was ''unstable as heck''.

Does a normal grown man or woman :

1. Blast the radio volume full up in the living room full up with malicious intentions,
knowing very well that the person sleeping in a room nearby suffers from severe tinnitus ?
2. Then, when I come out to turn it down, he writes the first note above, insisting that
I had no right to do so ? Isn't that a clear-cut example of narcissistic behaviour ?
3. Locks his sibling out of the kitchen, maliciously depriving him of food, much like
a child locking his sister or brother out, so that they won't be able to take his sweets ?
Isn't that sadism ?
4. Collaborates with his wife to teach their four-year old son to come in my room when
I am sleeping, and shout '' GET OUT !! '' ? And when I lock my door to keep him out,
teaches him further to use his toy pistol to ''shoot my door twenty times '' ?
5. Then, when I come out to tell them off, writes the above note saying that I have
no right to ''scold his family '' ? Isn't that another example of narcissism ?
6. Teaches both his kids to call me a '' piece of junk '' ? Does a normal person,
or any of you for that matter, teach your kids to call their uncle that, or even
think of ever doing so, if you are not married ?
7. Abused the younger child (the one whom they taught to call me to ''Get Out'')
when he was just two ? With none of my other siblings believing me that their
brother was a child abuser, let alone daring to intervene, out of options (the law
was not one), I was forced to turn to spiritual and occult sources to save the child,
which luckily, they did.
And does a normal person abuse a two-year old child, frankly ? As I understand,
only mentally unstable people do that.

Incidentally, the salutation '' FAI CAI '' which he addressed me by in the first attachment,
is the Chinese term for ''worthless piece of wood'' .

Feedback from several sources revealed that NOBODY in Western Digital likes him,
with many vicious enemies there. He shouts and hollers at his subordinates as if
they were stray dogs.

When a highly reputable clairvoyant (or psychic or medium, if you would prefer
to call him that) in town checked him out recently, he told me that my brother has
''serious mental problems'' and is actually a SADIST.

And finally, while this may beside the point, philosophically, when you teach your
own blood to hate your own blood - how do you think they are going to treat you
in old age ?
It doesn't need belief in ''Karma'' or retribution to guess the likely consequences.

I do believe that my brother has an overlap of schizoid, paranoid and narcissistic
disorders.
If I had my way, I'd start him right away on risperidone, olanzapine, quetiapine
or aripriprazole.

Anyway, as mentioned earlier, I guess I did not really expect much of a feedback
in this forum from just a single post, so I would like to thank everyone here for
their time, and to wish all of you much good health and recovery from your
conditions.

[allme]

You are not really in a position to dx him yourself. You seem pretty obsessed by him IMO. Is this all really one sided? I have fallen out with my brother before, it's horrible, but during that time we wasn't exactly nice to each other. And the fact that you live together probably agitates the situation.

I really don't think you should live together either! Sounds terribly unhealthy!