Sex difficulties

Hi,
I wrote in another post how my gf was sexually abused and that we were trying to have sex comfortably. We ended up trying some things-- I made a nice home made dinner , then we watched a movie with gentle cuddling, after the movie she told me she was ready to have sex. We did a lot of foreplay and I asked her if what I was doing was okay (when I got to diff parts of that body)...as I touched her underwear, I noticednsheh tensed up so I stopped but she asked me to continue and once I did she started having an Anxiety attack and obviously we stopped. She wanted to continue after but I fear she is ranting to have sex for me while I really want her to enjoy it for herself...

She's been seeing both a regular and sex therapist for some years

It sounds like your girlfriend will need some more therapy. I'm glad to see, though, that she is really trying to get past her issues with sex. I'm also glad to see that you are being very patient and understanding with her. Good for you. There are many who would not be so caring.