[Bobsburgers978]

I hope I'm not overstepping any boundaries here. I've been searching online for information about how to help my bipolar father and came across this group. Over the last 10 years, my father has had a difficult time finding treatment that allows him to live what he thinks of as a normal life (socially, professionally, etc.). When counseling and medications and inpatient treatment didn't seem to help, he tried electroshock therapy. I'm having an awful time finding information about long term effects of this treatment. My mother and I disagreed about this treatment for my father, so in an effort to avoid family arguements I took a backseat when it came to treating his bipolar disorder. I'd love to better understand what he is going through and how I can help him. What support can family offer someone who is bipolar? How can I make this easier on him? And if anyone is willing to talk about electroshock side effects (treatment was about 8 years ago now) I would really appreciate it. My father has awful memory loss now and tremors. I'm just hoping someone here can help me understand how to help him. Thanks ❤

[Skeezyks]

Hello Bobsburgers978: I'm sorry I cannot really offer much with regard to your concerns. I'm an older man myself (probably older than your father) & may also have Bipolar tendencies... at least that is something that has been suggested to me in the past. However I've never had ECT. There are other members, here on PC, who will be in a better position than I am to be of assistance. However I see this is your first post here on PC. So... to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! May the time you spend here be of benefit.

[Erebos]

Hey bobs,, just thought if you wanted to take a look at the "other treatments" forum. You will find people who have first hand experience with ECT. Maybe they can help shed some light.
All the best hope you find what your looking for.

Originally Posted by Bobsburgers978

Over the last 10 years, my father has had a difficult time finding treatment that allows him to live what he thinks of as a normal life (socially, professionally, etc.). What support can family offer someone who is bipolar? How can I make this easier on him?

Help him understand that he will never live what he thinks of as a normal life.