Home Menu

Menu


 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Oct 12, 2010, 04:42 PM
pinkpony pinkpony is offline
Member
 
Member Since: May 2010
Location: here and there
Posts: 118
hi everyone...i was wondering what other people think of personality disorders...from what ive read it seems like most mental health websites say that personality disorders cant be 'cured' but managed. this really bothers me. i was wondering if anyone has some other views? can a personality disorder go away, be 'fixed'? or is it lifelong, something u have to manage ur entire life....? just wanted to hear others views...im feeling quite depressed about it

advertisement
  #2  
Old Oct 14, 2010, 05:37 PM
RiverX's Avatar
RiverX RiverX is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Jul 2007
Location: UK
Posts: 587
How ignorant people are that say that.
Course they can be cured, they are caused in relationship, they can be cured in relationship. If the person wants recovery and wants to seek and do what it takes, and why woulndt one?
are you thinking about yourself?
__________________
"Strong passions are the precious raw materials of sanctity" Fulton Sheen
Thanks for this!
ECHOES, phoenix7, VoNPD
  #3  
Old Oct 19, 2010, 05:16 AM
ECHOES's Avatar
ECHOES ECHOES is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Aug 2007
Location: West of Tampa Bay, East of the Gulf of Mexico
Posts: 14,354
Yes, therapy helps a person with a personality disorder grow.
Personality disorders are formed during development; they are ways of thinking and perceptions learned. They are part of us, but working with a therapist gives us the opportunity to develop more and learn new perceptions, and to learn about ourselves.


There is an excellent book about a woman's treatment for and cure of Borderline Personality called "Get Me Out of Here" by Rachael Rieland.
Thanks for this!
phoenix7
  #4  
Old Oct 19, 2010, 09:06 AM
phoenix7's Avatar
phoenix7 phoenix7 is offline
Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2008
Location: Australia
Posts: 8,135
there is a big stigma against personality disorders and a lot o therapistsdo stil throw up their hands and say incurable grrrr

but they are wrong!

my old T dealt specifically wiht borderline personality disorders that no-one else would take - he said there is no such thing as an incurable person - only the wrong therapist or the wrong time for healing and i agree

dont lose hope - its hard work - but its all about changing the way we think when it is affected by our upbringing

sends hugs if ok
__________________
Its not how many times you fall down that counts
its how many times you get back up!
do they last forever?
(Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )

When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet
  #5  
Old Nov 15, 2010, 09:47 AM
sunnygirl1uk sunnygirl1uk is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2010
Location: london UK
Posts: 42
For me i dont know if it can be cured, but can be diminished slightly with the right therapy... but maybe im just being hopefull taht my personality disorder will go away and that i will be classed normal again.
__________________
Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: High
Schizoid: Low
Schizotypal: Moderate
Antisocial: Low
Borderline: Very High
Histrionic: Low
Narcissistic: Moderate
Avoidant: Very High
Dependent: Very High
Obsessive-Compulsive: High
URL of the test: http://www.4degreez.com/misc/persona...sorder_test.mv
URL for more info: http://www.4degreez.com/disorder/index.html
 
Views: 612

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 02:00 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.