[ledz]

Why is it necessary for some people to fabricate lies about someone that they are in a serious relationship with, then demonstrate hatred at their friend for being a liar which is then grounds to be questioned,miss trusted,then accused of anything which will give this person grounds to dump them? And so fast that no chance is given for repair.
What is it that makes a woman for instance appear suddenly and without notice or explanation to intentionally begin to destroy a relationship. And once underway no appeal can stop the process of being trashed and thrown away. No conscience or care is shown for a person who they appeared to be in love with just 24 hrs. earlier. Being treated like a complete stranger or worse..like a stalker seals the deal with fear.
What drives a person to be as evil as they can be in order get rid of their lover.
What happens inside a person's head to cause them to be so callus and thoughtless?
It just happened to me.

[ledz]

In my case I did get an impression that she didn't like herself physically. I thought perhaps this is a way to avoid intimacy. She hates herself this much? Idk.

[StrongerMan]

It is a mental disorder. This is how these people deal with the emotions that other people "impose" upon them by, God forbid, expressing their own "trivial" needs and feelings. They devalue and discard. They split. Black and white. You are either all good (idealized) or complete trash. Do as they say or your dead to them. I couldn't believe another person could act that way either. Add this to a woman's normal emotional nature and there is not a fighting chance in he.ll to cope with them. Better to sail around than to be battered into toothpicks by the force of such a storm.

[ledz]

Originally Posted by StrongerMan

It is a mental disorder. This is how these people deal with the emotions that other people "impose" upon them by, God forbid, expressing their own "trivial" needs and feelings. They devalue and discard. They split. Black and white. You are either all good (idealized) or complete trash. Do as they say or your dead to them. I couldn't believe another person could act that way either. Add this to a woman's normal emotional nature and there is not a fighting chance in he.ll to cope with them. Better to sail around than to be battered into toothpicks by the force of such a storm.

It's unfortunate that this sounds like women bashing. It's not. You ladies out there who aren't like this and believe this is horrible too will always have my respect for being responsible for your actions. There should be some kind public scrutiny of this behavior. It's just plain wrong. If only there were a warning sign hanging off these people like a scarlet letter. Who knows?
Thanks "StrongerMan" . What we need are "More Accountable Women/People" I think.